Flying Monkeys and Smear Campaigns

In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the concept of "flying monkeys" and its relevance to narcissistic behavior. The term, borrowed from the movie The Wizard of Oz, describes how narcissistic individuals may use others to carry out their bidding, often against someone they are targeting. Dr. Perry acknowledges that this topic may be challenging to hear for those exhibiting narcissistic tendencies, but he emphasizes the importance of awareness and self-improvement.Flying monkeys can range from engaging in smear campaigns to subtly turning family members against one another. Dr. Perry explains that while these behaviors might seem extreme, they can occur on a spectrum. By understanding and recognizing these tendencies, individuals can work towards positive change, improving their relationships and overall well-being.Key Points Covered:Originating from The Wizard of Oz, this term describes how narcissists use others to attack or undermine someone.Ranges from large-scale smear campaigns to more subtle manipulations.Recognizing these behaviors is crucial for making positive adjustments and improving relationships.Competitive nature and personal grudges often drive the use of flying monkeys in narcissistic behavior.Encouragement to reflect on past behaviors and consider making necessary changes.By reflecting on whether you've used such tactics and being honest with yourself, you take the first step towards better understanding and managing your narcissistic tendencies. Dr. Perry likens this self-examination to watching the film of a lost game – it's tough, but it's essential for growth and improvement.Remember, you're doing a great job by being here and working on yourself. Keep pushing forward and continue to strive for a healthier, more fulfilling life.Tune in to learn more about the concept of flying monkeys and how to identify and address this behavior in your life. Connect with Dr. Perry: ⁠⁠https://drericperry.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Own Your Stuff Online Coaching Group: ⁠https://drericperry.com/ownyourstuff⁠Empathy Awakening Workshop: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drericperry.com/empathyawakening⁠⁠⁠⁠Disclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.