Forgiving Him, Forgiving Me

In this deeply personal episode of Lay Low, Erin opens up about forgiveness, messy growth seasons, heartbreak, self-awareness, and learning how to let go — not just of other people, but of old versions of herself too.Inspired by the memoir Strangers by Belle Burden, this conversation explores what happens when people evolve in different directions, relationships unravel, and life forces us to confront both the ways we’ve been hurt… and the ways we’ve hurt others.Erin shares:emotional chaos during the end of her marriagethe gray areas and guilt that came with massive personal changelooking for love during her “Gypsy Life” eraforgiving her ex-fiancé after betrayal and a double lifeover-giving, ignoring red flags, and trying to love someone into stabilitythe difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and accesswhy some people are meant for a season, not foreverThis episode also answers a listener question:“How do you let go of resentment toward someone when you know they’ve deeply hurt you or someone you love?”Through stories, reflections, and lessons learned the hard way, Erin talks honestly about accountability, boundaries, self-forgiveness, and why growth rarely looks graceful while you’re inside it.Because sometimes the hardest person to forgive… is yourself.Submit listener questions or share your story as a possible pod guest at www.laylowpod.comThanks for laying low with me. ❤️