Fruit Full: KINDNESS (Pt 6)

KINDNESS Humans struggle every day just to be kind to other humans. False kindness: beneficial to you, manipulation, self-preservation Ephesians 4:31-32 True kindness: absence of bitterness; generous; flows to those we agree with and those that we don't; meeting the needs of others; self-sacrifice "Niceness is more about fear, while kindness is more about love.” | Candace Cameron Bure NICE actions motivated by fear: fear of conflict fear of rejection fear of vulnerability KINDNESS is seeing people. Politeness: the simple expectation to be a good human by being good to others Niceness: outwardly kind, but can be inwardly selfish Kindness: seeing the other person; more concerned for others than the self KINDNESS: a one-size fits all policy toward all people in the recognition that all people are made in the image of God. John 4:1-30 KINDNESS towards ourselves... Love your neighbor as yourself. #1, It’s okay to not be okay → be kind to your emotions. #2, Transition is temporary → embrace being a beginner. #3, Interrupt the lies with truth → surround yourself with people who will speak truth. #4, Treat yourself the way you treat others – extend that same grace to yourself. KINDNESS is a reflection of God's relationship with humanity. Titus 3:4-7 Questions for reflection: When have I received true kindness? How did it make me feel? Do I believe that Jesus sees me & knows me? Do I see others with kindness in my eyes? Do I see myself with kindness in my eyes? Do I speak to myself with criticism or grace? What lies do I need to interrupt with truth? Who am I regularly passing by that could benefit from true kindness?