High-functioning Trauma Hiders and Their ‘Superpowers’ with Toku McCree

Toku McCree is an executive coach. Formerly a monk, Toku lived in a Zen monastery where he vowed to liberate all beings from suffering. Today, as an executive coach, Toku has built a business to do just that. He founded Unexecutive.com—a platform that works to create enlightened leaders to solve the world’s most pressing problems—and has worked with many brilliant minds, from Zen Habits’ Leo Babauta to the marketing leaders of Pepsi and Nestle. But, to me, Toku is more than just an executive coach—he is love, accessibility, energy, calm, acceptance, and peace.Toku joins me today to discuss how trauma shows up in leadership and describes the dark side of trauma response as a superpower. He explains how our childhood experiences shape who we are. He describes his life at a Zen monastery and how his time there informs his work with his executive coaching clients. Toku also outlines how trauma and its resulting “superpowers” get in the way of leadership and underscores the importance of creating an environment where trust can flourish.“High-functioning trauma hiders develop superpowers through their trauma and, as a result, think that they should just use that capacity for everything, even when it’s not absolutely necessary.” - Toku McCreeThis week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:Hiding suffering and Toku’s life in a Zen monasteryPerception versus communication and how hidden suffering tends to show up in the marginsHigh-functioning trauma hiders and how they overuse their superpowersRecruiting the “wormy squirmies” into our lives and how being comfortable in crisis makes us want to stir up troubleWhat carrying the weight of trauma as a leader looks likeIsolation and hypervigilance in relationships as a result of traumaThe dark side of perception as a superpower resulting from traumaHow “superpowers” from trauma can get in the way of leadershipThe relationship between trauma and trust and how mistrust costs foundersCreating an environment where people can become trustworthyOur other “superpowers,” mysticism and accepting the world as a mysterious placeToku’s journey into his life at a Zen monasteryConnect with Toku McCree:UnexecutiveUnexecutive on LinkedInToku McCree on LinkedInWhere High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHERThanks for tuning into this week’s Trauma Hiders Club ‘The Podcast’ episode with Karen Goldfinger Baker. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon MusicBe sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more high achievers, like you.Join me on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn and visit my website to discover the rules of Trauma Club and grab your free download: Discover 5 Ways Your Fuckery Is Getting In The Way of The Next Level of Your Success.