How Do I Make Aligned Choices When I’m Still Untangling?

Have you ever asked yourself, “Am I doing this for me or because I don’t want to upset someone else?” In this episode, I talk about what it’s been like to move from old patterns of people-pleasing into deeper self-trust, and how murky that process can be. We talk about internal safety, the tension of not knowing yet, and why it’s okay if things aren’t clear right away. If you’re learning how to take care of yourself and still stay connected to others, without abandoning either, this is for you.Ready to take these conversations deeper?Share Your Voice — Leave a voice message with a question you’re living into: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/LivingTheQuestions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 Conversation Session — Like your own personal episode, these sessions are a space to live your question through thoughtful conversation: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.ckoesterinspired.com/conversation-sessions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rehumanizing YOU Coaching — This is a space for deep inquiry and integration, where your questions become the path. If you’re ready to untangle old patterns and step into a more aligned, embodied way of being, explore more here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.ckoesterinspired.com/coaching-offerings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anchored Abundance -- join the waitlist to learn more about this new 7-week journey my dear friend Ky + I are co-creating, all about reclaiming our relational capacity to live, give, receive and belong in a world that has forgotten how: ⁠https://kyliemcbeath.myflodesk.com/abundance-waitlist⁠Resources:Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.ckoesterinspired.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Podcast IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/livingthequestionspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Business IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ckoesterinspired⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Coaching Offerings: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.ckoesterinspired.com/coaching-offerings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Enjoyed the episode? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review! You can also connect with us on Instagram @livingthequestionspodcast or join our community group at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://livingthequestionspodcast.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Things I Genuinely Love — Affiliate & Community Spotlights:✨ Disobedient Goods & Apparel: offers judgment-free sticker tools for self-guided practice, discovery, and mapping — designed to spark curiosity, connection, and a deeper understanding of the paths we walk. Explore the collection at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.disobedientgoods.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code LIVINGTHEQUESTIONS15 for 15% off your entire order.🤍 FOND Bone Broth: my personal FAVORITE for nourishing, gut-loving bone broth that’s as comforting as it is healing! Use code: COURTNEY-KOESTER for 10% off at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://fondbonebroth.com/COURTNEY-KOESTER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠☕️ Living Tea: my go-to source for wild and organic Teas, along with amazing Tea education to deepen your practice! Use code: CKOESTERINSPIRED for 15% off at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.livingtea.net/courtney⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⭕️ Circle Community: A beautiful, all-in-one location for your community to gather, remain connected, attend workshops, join memberships, etc. Love an aesthetically pleasing and easy-to-organize digital community space. Explore more here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://try.circle.so/8amtv3uilqpo