How Do I Stop People-Pleasing?

Click Here To Send Your Question Via TextIn This Episode: ✨ - Intro ✨ - Helen's Gratitude As Alchemy Workshop in December. For more info visit: helenracz.com ✨ - Anne's Cosmic Nudge: Balancing the Feminine and the Masculine within. ✨ - Kelsi’s insta: @kelsi.hinton ✨ - Out of balance = Exhaustion. Get Clarity, Clarity, Clarity to move forward powerfully in what you want. ✨ - Listener Question from Megan: How do I stop people-pleasing and worrying about everyone accepting me as I change, and grow, and don't align with my family and loved ones on things we used to be connected by? ✨ - Short Answer: Clarity, Clarity, Clarity. ✨ - The vision of what you truly want replaces the old patterns of people-pleasing by creating a new target of what you want to experience. ✨ - You have to define what the best you looks like by your definition. 📖 - Codependent No More - Melody Beattie https://www.amazon.com/Codependent-No-More-Controlling-Yourself/dp/195411821X/ref=asc_df_195411821X?mcid=1c0965e9f6ef3753adb905a686e1a73c&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=693410598443&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=864606867819180354&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9192399&hvtargid=pla-1680129615568&psc=1 📖 Dying to Please - Linda Howard https://www.amazon.com/Dying-Please-Novel-Linda-Howard/dp/0345453409 ✨ - Nobody is happy when you are stuck in this pattern. If people-pleasing actually worked , if everyone around you appreciated what you're giving, you wouldn't even be asking this question. ✨ - **Take a big breath** "Codependency is worrying about everyone else's happiness so you don't have to do your own work." - Helen Racz ✨ - Learn how to think, to get the result you want, with the actions you're choosing. ✨ - When you practice clarity you become a vibrational leader. People will respond to the most dominant, cohesive energy. ✨ - It's never what you do, it's the energy you're in when you do it. ✨ - Helen's Question for this episode: Who Is The Most Important Person In Your Life? And Why? We'll post on instagram and if you want to play along leave a comment for either question! ✨ - Conscious Co-Creation for the Holidays sign up: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeguAmKHzs4IWrOLD9ula2Y1dcTBFTS4Twcw_1xaI0THAdJKQ/viewform?usp=sf_linkSupport the show✨We invite you to listen, relisten, take notes, comment, review, subscribe, send in your questions! We love connecting with you. ✨Ask your question via the Google Form: https://forms.gle/3J1VgZaBNp6k3rXXA or send an email to: [email protected] ✨For info on upcoming events, free resources, and consults with Helen visit helenracz.com ✨ "Metaphysical Street Smarts" is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The content shared on this podcast is not intended to be professional advice -- legal, medical, metaphysical, or otherwise. We encourage you to do your own research, trust your intuition, and consult with a qualified professional where needed. We're here to share and spark ideas!✨As always we invite you to take what blesses you and leave the rest. Thanks for tuning in and spending time with us. Until next time, stay grounded! 🎧Master of Mastering: Brad McIntyre. 🎵Theme music: https://pixabay.com/music/happy-childrens-tunes-happy-acoustic-guitar-background-music-122614/