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EPISODE · Apr 7, 2026 · 13 MIN

How Do You Know If You Should Stay or Leave When God Feels Silent?

from Guided: Hearing God's Voice in the Life You Actually Have · host Brenda Bertrand

Before listening to this episode, please read my “Safety and Abuse Disclaimer” below.My heart had moved on. But God had not released me yet. For almost three years, I stayed in a space I had already outgrown. I felt unseen, misaligned, and quietly certain it was not my long term place. Then the chapter ended. I exhaled for the first time in years.This story reflects a work and vocational context. It does not apply to abusive relationships or harmful environments of any kind. If harm is present in any area of your life, this episode, scripture, or any spiritual voice is not a call to stay. It is a call to leave and get to safety. Get out now.This episode is for the woman who feels the pull to leave and the call to stay. You are discerning in real time, not in hindsight. You do not need to force an answer to honor what is true. There is sacred work happening in spaces that no longer fit. This is for you.Safety and Abuse DisclaimerI do not support or encourage anyone to remain in a relationship that is emotionally, physically, spiritually, or otherwise abusive.If you are in an abusive situation, seek help and get to safety. You deserve care, protection, and support.God does not call you to remain in harm. God is not present in manipulation, control, fear, or violence. Scripture must not be used to justify abuse or silence your need for safety.Nothing in this message should be interpreted as guidance to stay in an abusive relationship. If harm is present in any way, you need to leave. Your safety matters.If you need support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.-------Subscribe free to my newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠http://eepurl.com/hiV8TH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.brendabertrand.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

Before listening to this episode, please read my “Safety and Abuse Disclaimer” below.My heart had moved on. But God had not released me yet. For almost three years, I stayed in a space I had already outgrown. I felt unseen, misaligned, and quietly certain it was not my long term place. Then the chapter ended. I exhaled for the first time in years.This story reflects a work and vocational context. It does not apply to abusive relationships or harmful environments of any kind. If harm is present in any area of your life, this episode, scripture, or any spiritual voice is not a call to stay. It is a call to leave and get to safety. Get out now.This episode is for the woman who feels the pull to leave and the call to stay. You are discerning in real time, not in hindsight. You do not need to force an answer to honor what is true. There is sacred work happening in spaces that no longer fit. This is for you.Safety and Abuse DisclaimerI do not support or encourage anyone to remain in a relationship that is emotionally, physically, spiritually, or otherwise abusive.If you are in an abusive situation, seek help and get to safety. You deserve care, protection, and support.God does not call you to remain in harm. God is not present in manipulation, control, fear, or violence. Scripture must not be used to justify abuse or silence your need for safety.Nothing in this message should be interpreted as guidance to stay in an abusive relationship. If harm is present in any way, you need to leave. Your safety matters.If you need support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.-------Subscribe free to my newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠http://eepurl.com/hiV8TH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.brendabertrand.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

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