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EPISODE · Oct 28, 2025 · 19 MIN

How To Respond To Avoidants

from Decoding Attachment Styles · host Annalisa Bahadur

You’re doing “the talk wrong and I’ll help you fix it.First, think - an avoidant brain is not a secure brain. You can’t talk to it like it’s an emotionally healthy brain.We think we have to soft talk an avoidant but they are really looking at you thinking - “ I got this exactly where I want it.”I spoke kindly and softy for decades and that got me nothing but breadcrumbs and disrespect.ps: these tips are only for the emotionally immature.I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

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You’re doing “the talk wrong and I’ll help you fix it. First, think - an avoidant brain is not a secure brain. You can’t talk to it like it’s an emotionally healthy brain. We think we have to soft talk an avoidant but they are really looking at you thinking - “ I got this exactly where I want it.” I spoke kindly and softy for decades and that got me nothing but breadcrumbs and disrespect. ps: these tips are only for the emotionally immature. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episod...

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You’re doing “the talk wrong and I’ll help you fix it.First, think - an avoidant brain is not a secure brain. You can’t talk to it like it’s an emotionally healthy brain.We think we have to soft talk an avoidant but they are really looking at you...

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