I Catfished My Partner at a Gang Bang (And Still Said I Love You)

This is Tommy's story.I catfished him on Scruff while he was ass up at a gang bang. He came home. I confronted him.And I still said "I love you."Because I did. And because love, sometimes, looks nothing like the movies tell you it should.This episode is about the relationship that should have destroyed me. About loving someone so broken that their chaos becomes your religion. About the moment you realize dysfunction isn't romance—it's just dysfunction wearing a really good disguise.But knowing that and leaving are two very different things.Content warnings: This podcast contains discussions of childhood sexual abuse, addiction, violence, death, and trauma. But it also full of profound love, transformation, and hope. Listener discretion advised.