I Forgot What I Liked After Divorce and Found It at the Driving Range

You do not forget who you are overnight. It happens quietly over time. You say yes when you mean maybe. You blend into someone else's life. You become flexible to the point of disappearing. One day, you are standing in front of a menu and realize you do not even know what you like.That was me. After divorce and years of people pleasing, I realized I had no idea what I wanted in life. I was not just healing. I was trying to remember how to choose anything. My food. My clothes. My hobbies. My joy.So I started small. I ordered the thing I was curious about. I wore what felt like mine. I gave myself permission to try and not be good at it. Then came golf. The driving range became a strange and magical place where I did not need to be perfect. I just needed to show up.This is not about finding love through a sport. It is about finding myself. If you are ready to stop performing and start rediscovering who you are, you belong here. You are not broken. You are just beginning. And you are allowed to shoot for above par in life, love, and leisure.