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EPISODE · Jun 17, 2026 · 16 MIN

“I Have So Much Love To Give… So Why Am I Still Single?”

from Find Love With Emily · host Emily Bucknell

You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single??Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 🫣And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your intentions are so loving. Yet somehow, you’re still single?!?!?WTF?!?! 🥺In this episode, I explain why. I share the realization (and most mortifying dating experiences) I had that got me back on track to actually find love. Because the problem isn’t that you’re not loving enough. It isn’t that all the genuine, decent, available men are taken. It’s just that you don’t realize you’re chasing something that makes it hard to find real, lasting love. Inside this episode you'll hear:Why some of the kindest, most loving women struggle the longest to find loveWhat you’re actually chasing when you want a man, the relationship and loveWhy emotionally unavailable men can feel so addictiveWhy you get pulled into breadcrumbs, situationships and casual relationships you KNOW are BSWhy having "so much love to give" isn't actually what creates loveHow to stop the chase that’s keeping you single And what gets you back on track to actually find love. If you've ever found yourself wondering: "Why am I still single when I’m a kind, loving woman with a whole lotta love to give?"This episode is for you 😘🎧 Press play now. 👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE:LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026]Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY:And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST!CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN:To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  💌 CONNECT WITH ME:Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/questionOr send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

You know what’s really frustrating when you’re a woman, over 30 and still single??Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, you’re kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 🫣And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. You’re thoughtful, you’d make an incredible partner, your intentions are so loving. Yet somehow, you’re still single?!?!?WTF?!?! 🥺In this episode, I explain why. I share the realization (and most mortifying dating experiences) I had that got me back on track to actually find love. Because the problem isn’t that you’re not loving enough. It isn’t that all the genuine, decent, available men are taken. It’s just that you don’t realize you’re chasing something that makes it hard to find real, lasting love. Inside this episode you'll hear:Why some of the kindest, most loving women struggle the longest to find loveWhat you’re actually chasing when you want a man, the relationship and loveWhy emotionally unavailable men can feel so addictiveWhy you get pulled into breadcrumbs, situationships and casual relationships you KNOW are BSWhy having "so much love to give" isn't actually what creates loveHow to stop the chase that’s keeping you single And what gets you back on track to actually find love. If you've ever found yourself wondering: "Why am I still single when I’m a kind, loving woman with a whole lotta love to give?"This episode is for you 😘🎧 Press play now. 👉 JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE:LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026]Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily💕 Join LOVED WITH EMILY:And get a growing library of refreshingly simple 5-day audio experiences, support and community that pick you up out of the horrors of dating and get you back on track to find love....FAST!CLICK HERE TO JOIN 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily👩‍❤️‍👨 GET EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO ATTRACT YOUR MAN:To get the trusted steps, tool and practices to follow the one rule love does and Attract YOUR Man:CLICK HERE 👉 https://www.emilybucknell.com/aym-podcast  💌 CONNECT WITH ME:Have a question for me? You can ask me here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/questionOr send me a DM anytime on Instagram @findlovewithemilyIf you found this episode helpful, please send it to a friend who might need to hear it too xx

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