EPISODE · Jun 11, 2026 · 30 MIN
In the Place You Least Want to Look
from Encouragementology · host Kendell Boysen
SHOW NOTES: What if the thing you've been searching for isn't missing at all? What if it's waiting in the one place you've been unwilling to look? In this episode, we explore why we avoid certain conversations, decisions, emotions, and opportunities, and how that avoidance often costs us more energy than facing the issue itself. Together, we'll look at the stories we tell ourselves, the fears that keep us circling the same challenges, and the surprising possibility that what we've been avoiding may actually be pointing us toward growth, clarity, and freedom. Here is what we unpack together: Why the place you least want to look may hold the answer you've been searching for. How avoidance disguises itself as busyness, research, preparation, and waiting for the "right time." The hidden emotional cost of carrying unresolved issues in the background of your life. Why "it's complicated" is often another way of saying "it's hard." Carl Jung's insight about making the darkness conscious and what that means for personal growth. How Steven Pressfield's concept of Resistance can help identify what matters most. The difference between facts and the stories we create about our fears. A simple flashlight exercise to help identify the area of life that may need your attention. Why discomfort isn't always a warning sign and may actually be evidence of growth. The surprising B-side perspective that what you're avoiding may not be an obstacle at all, but a teacher, a lesson, or even an opportunity. Resources Mentioned The War of Art by Steven Pressfield Insights from Carl Jung on self-awareness and personal growth Brené Brown's work on vulnerability, courage, and the stories we tell ourselves CHALLENGE: Identify one thing you’ve been walking around instead of through. Shine a flashlight on it, tell yourself the truth about it, and take a single step toward addressing it this week. The place you least want to look may be holding the clarity, freedom, or growth you’ve been searching for all along. I Know YOU Can Do It! 🎶 Music that Moves the Message All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode. Find more of Matt’s music here: MATT MARTINO Spotify iTunes Youtube
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SHOW NOTES: What if the thing you've been searching for isn't missing at all? What if it's waiting in the one place you've been unwilling to look? In this episode, we explore why we avoid certain conversations, decisions, emotions, and opportunities, and how that avoidance often costs us more energy than facing the issue itself. Together, we'll look at the stories we tell ourselves, the fears that keep us circling the same challenges, and the surprising possibility that what we've been avoiding may actually be pointing us toward growth, clarity, and freedom. Here is what we unpack together: Why the place you least want to look may hold the answer you've been searching for. How avoidance disguises itself as busyness, research, preparation, and waiting for the "right time." The hidden emotional cost of carrying unresolved issues in the background of your life. Why "it's complicated" is often another way of saying "it's hard." Carl Jung's insight about making the darkness conscious and what that means for personal growth. How Steven Pressfield's concept of Resistance can help identify what matters most. The difference between facts and the stories we create about our fears. A simple flashlight exercise to help identify the area of life that may need your attention. Why discomfort isn't always a warning sign and may actually be evidence of growth. The surprising B-side perspective that what you're avoiding may not be an obstacle at all, but a teacher, a lesson, or even an opportunity. Resources Mentioned The War of Art by Steven Pressfield Insights from Carl Jung on self-awareness and personal growth Brené Brown's work on vulnerability, courage, and the stories we tell ourselves CHALLENGE: Identify one thing you’ve been walking around instead of through. Shine a flashlight on it, tell yourself the truth about it, and take a single step toward addressing it this week. The place you least want to look may be holding the clarity, freedom, or growth you’ve been searching for all along. I Know YOU Can Do It! 🎶 Music that Moves the Message All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode. Find more of Matt’s music here: MATT MARTINO Spotify iTunes Youtube
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