Initiating conflicts for aggressive sex and how this can be detrimental.

“Got thoughts, turn-ons, or tea to spill? Slide into my text line and tell me what lit you up in today’s episode—or what you need us to dive into next. No topic’s too taboo. You know I keep it real, raw, and dripping in truth.”In this discussion, we address the harmful practice of starting fights to achieve intense or aggressive sexual encounters. Such behavior is not only toxic but also suggests a lack of emotional intelligence. It's a pattern often observed, especially among females or submissive partners, who resort to unnecessary conflict when what they truly desire is more passionate and daring intimacy.Support the showHosted by Vee, a former dominatrix with 10+ years of experience, this is where intimacy, BDSM, kinks, and taboo desires collide. We go deep into threesomes, anal play, escorts, submission, dominance, and the unspoken truths about sex and power.💋 Expect raw interviews, shock-value confessions, and real tools to spice your love life and master your fantasies. Come curious, leave hammer’d.📲 Follow everywhere → @the_velvethammerpodcast (IG, TikTok, Twitter, Threads, Snapchat) 🎧 Stream on Spotify, Apple, Pandora & all major platforms.