Intelligence Doesn't Follow the Rules

Reflections on my Conversation with Aurora Remember

Episode 12 of the I Must Be BUG'N podcast, hosted by Sheldon Gay, titled "Intelligence Doesn't Follow the Rules" was published on April 10, 2026 and runs 14 minutes.

April 10, 2026 ·14m · I Must Be BUG'N

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Summary

Episode Transcript (provided by Riverside - forgive any errors): https://docs.google.com/document/d/106LAoMc6XM9rF8ncpNwK_CsxtHZL9PCLkJRXeeebH3Q/edit?usp=sharingFollow I Must Be BUGN on IG @sheldongayisbugnSummaryIn this short reflection episode, I talk about a few key reflections on my recent episode with Aurora Remember. I discuss the importance of understanding yourself, particularly via diagnosis and self-acceptance. The power of authenticity can change our jobs and our relationships. I also highlight her push for us to lean into self-regulation rather than self-control. Lastly, I give my thoughts on why intelligence can't be expected to follow the rules or align with intuition. Check out the full episode (Season 3 - Episode 11) for the complete experience.Key PointsAuthenticity is risky but rewardingWe need to quiet the voice that tells us we need to be controlled rather than lovedIntelligence is complex and not hierarchicalStay In Touch with Aurora:@auroraremember on most platforms (embracing intensity on YouTube and IG)Embracing Intensity Podcast - https://embracingintensity.com/media/podcast/Aurora's Website - https://embracingintensity.comHelpful Links:Hire me to speak or as your personal coach! sheldongayisbugn.comDatabase of Therapists for Black and other Marginalized Groups: https://link.sheldongayisbugn.com/therapistsformypeopleFree GroupMe Community for Talented and Gifted adults: https://groupme.com/join_group/108040800/igLaxqNGND Connect - Online community for neurodivergent people: ndconnect.appUmbrella ND - Non-profit focused on neurodivergent advocacy: https://umbrellaopensdoors.org/Keywordsdiagnosis, authenticity, self-regulation, self-control, intelligence, neurodiversity, accommodations, mental health, personal growth, belongingIntro and Outro music provided by byrdversion1 - "Understand" from the album Nevermore Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Description

Episode Transcript (provided by Riverside - forgive any errors): https://docs.google.com/document/d/106LAoMc6XM9rF8ncpNwK_CsxtHZL9PCLkJRXeeebH3Q/edit?usp=sharing

Follow I Must Be BUGN on IG @sheldongayisbugn

Summary

In this short reflection episode, I talk about a few key reflections on my recent episode with Aurora Remember. I discuss the importance of understanding yourself, particularly via diagnosis and self-acceptance. The power of authenticity can change our jobs and our relationships. I also highlight her push for us to lean into self-regulation rather than self-control. Lastly, I give my thoughts on why intelligence can't be expected to follow the rules or align with intuition. Check out the full episode (Season 3 - Episode 11) for the complete experience.

Key Points

Authenticity is risky but rewarding
We need to quiet the voice that tells us we need to be controlled rather than loved
Intelligence is complex and not hierarchical

Stay In Touch with Aurora:

@auroraremember on most platforms (embracing intensity on YouTube and IG)
Embracing Intensity Podcast - https://embracingintensity.com/media/podcast/
Aurora's Website - https://embracingintensity.com

Helpful Links:

Hire me to speak or as your personal coach! sheldongayisbugn.com
Database of Therapists for Black and other Marginalized Groups: https://link.sheldongayisbugn.com/therapistsformypeople
Free GroupMe Community for Talented and Gifted adults: https://groupme.com/join_group/108040800/igLaxqNG
ND Connect - Online community for neurodivergent people: ndconnect.app
Umbrella ND - Non-profit focused on neurodivergent advocacy: https://umbrellaopensdoors.org/