Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship?

Today's episode is all about “Selfishness”. Is "Being Selfish" unfairly depicted negatively? How can it affect the dating/relationship dynamics? What forms of selfishness are ok? What is the difference between self-care and selfishness? Is there a healthy amount of selfishness that actually can help to build a better relationship and beyond? We are spending every second with ourselves, don't we deserve more self-love? We are not subject matter experts and not trying to find the right answers. We are just talking it over in our individual beds, as the Talk It Over team takes social distancing very seriously. Now let's pull back the sheets... Host & Producer: KI from Bedstuy; Podcast host and co-producer: Olin - ‘Big O - keeping you in the know’, Podcast guests: James 'Jimmy' Vickery @ jamesvickerycomedy.com, Alexandra 'Sasha' Moncion, Briana Fuller aka ‘Bri with a Tea’, Avis 'A Divine' Bey, Leon Ferguson; Engineer & co-producer: Bumpy's Fun House; Co-producer: Anna Treyer-Simakova