King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore

Our guide begins by explaining why modern men grow up without being taught to connect to their masculinity in mature and healthy ways, and how that hurts society. Then, we explore the four psychological aspects listed in the title and two key requirements of healthy masculinity. Our commentary compares Moore and Gillette’s ideas to those of other psychologists, including Jung. We also provide tools and advice to help you connect with healthy masculinity, or help others to do so. Finally, we discuss how many of these issues could be signs of underlying psychiatric problems, which might need professional help to treat.