Listening to Find You

In this podcast, Brooke and Nadia continue their exploration of communication. After a discussion in which they realized they were both on different tracks and didn’t even know it, they realized how easy it is to lose the thread of communication. They talk about communication breakdowns when we don’t understand where the other is coming from, especially in terms of context and experience, and how, instead of asking questions for clarification, we often make assumptions, or push through a conversation not knowing what’s been missed. They wonder what it would be like on a global scale for people to care about each other more, to want to ask questions and listen, while extending the gifts of slowing down, patience, and curiosity. Takeaways:* Communication breakdowns can lead to breakthroughs* A communication breakdown is an opportunity to ask clarifying questions and to listen to the underlying needs of the conversation that might be unknown* Understanding different perspectives leads to a more nuanced understanding of each other and of differences that create misunderstandings* Personal experiences shape our reactions.* Slowing down in conversations is hard, but it allows for more safety to explore* True communication takes courage* Allowing others to matter is a choiceChapters:00:00 Welcome Back and Seasonal Reflections 02:59 Communication Breakdowns and Breakthroughs 08:27 Expectations and Family Dynamics 17:43 Self-Validation and Empathy 25:23 Understanding Perspectives and Communication 33:26 Hope for More Careful Caring Communication Get full access to Here Comes the Sun at herecomesthesunpodcast.substack.com/subscribe