Men’s Mental Health: Why Men Hide Their Emotions & The Cost of Silence

If you'd like to suggest episode subjects please reach out to us. Thank you!Society often tells men to “man up.”Be strong.Be stoic.Solve problems.But never talk about your own.In this episode of Ella Podcasts, we explore the hidden emotional struggles many men face — and why expressing vulnerability is still widely seen as weakness.From childhood, boys are taught to suppress emotions.Crying is mocked.Sensitivity is ridiculed.And by adulthood, many men have learned to bottle up stress, anger, loneliness, and burnout.Yet despite the perception that men are privileged in society, they also lead in troubling statistics including suicide rates, addiction, homelessness, and workplace fatalities.So what’s really going on? Joining me to unpack this complex and often overlooked topic are:Dr. Jonathan Marshall – Psychologist and former professor Ina Hammer – Men’s emotional health and wellbeing coach Samir Kothari – Investment fund manager sharing personal perspectivesTogether we discuss:• Why male emotional expression is often discouraged from childhood• The cultural expectation that men must be stoic problem-solvers• Why men are socially allowed only anger and lust as emotions• The stigma men face when expressing vulnerability• Why male emotional openness is encouraged socially — but often penalised in dating and leadership• The contradiction between what society says it wants from men and what it actually rewards• Why men often suffer in silence until serious health consequences appearThis episode explores a question that deserves far more attention: What happens when half the population feels unable to express their emotional pain? KEY TAKEAWAYS Boys are often socialised from childhood to suppress emotional vulnerability Male emotional expression is frequently ridiculed by both men and women Society rewards men for strength and control but punishes emotional openness Many men feel pressure to be providers and problem-solvers, not emotional communicators Men are often socially allowed only anger and lust as emotional outlets Emotional repression contributes to serious mental health challenges for men Honest conversations about men’s emotional wellbeing are long overdue Don’t forget to subscribe to our channel for more conversations about careers, relationships, mental health and modern life.https://www.youtube.com/@EllasPodcasts-z9v?sub_confirmation=1 The Podcast is available on your favourite platforms: Apple Podcasts Spotify Amazon Music Stay Connected With UsFacebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/816892014485089LinkedIn Group:https://www.linkedin.com/groups/16549037/ Suggested videos for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCqS0f0cwbE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cgaf77yQ2EQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbUgWPRRsNA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSj-OtNqX4ISupport the show