Passing Life's Tests episode artwork

EPISODE · Oct 20, 2023

Passing Life's Tests

from Embrace Shabbat · host Rabbi David Sutton

The Gemara in Masechet Berachot (18b) tells of a certain hasid (pious man) who once gave a significant sum of money to a poor person on Erev Rosh Hashanah, during a period of drought. When he arrived home, his wife became very angry that he gave away their money. The hasid left his home and went to sleep in the cemetery. (Rav Yisrael Salanter explained that the hasid felt himself harboring resentment towards his wife for her angry reaction, and he thus decided to undertake this drastic measure of sleeping in a cemetery to rid himself of his arrogance and negativity.) As he slept, he heard two spirits talking with one another. One went to find out what Hashem was decreeing upon the world for the coming year, and returned with the report that anything planted at the beginning of planting season would be destroyed by hail. Armed with this information, the hasid planted later than everybody else, and became wealthy. Rav Matisyahu Salomon explained that this hasid was slated to receive great blessing, but in order to receive it, he needed to first overcome tests and challenges. He first gave charity to help a needy person despite his own hardship, and then overcame the test posed by his wife’s angry reaction. By overcoming these challenges, he became worthy of the great bounty that G-d wished to give him. Life presents us with many challenges, and by withstanding them and passing our tests we prepare ourselves for receiving Hashem’s blessings. This is especially true about Shabbat, which is מקור הברכה – the source of all blessing. In order to access all the blessings that Shabbat makes available to us, we need to pass the difficult tests that Shabbat observance poses. Rav Shaul Semah of Lakewood told a story which he heard firsthand from the person involved. Rabbi Shalom Sklar, a Hassidic Rabbi, emigrated to the United States from Russia, and the Jewish Agency, which facilitated the resettlement of Jewish immigrants in the U.S. at that time, decided to send him to Chicago. Rabbi Sklar explored many different employment possibilities, but could not find a job. Every employer with whom he met said in no uncertain terms that if he would not work on Saturday, he would not have his job on Monday. He was intelligent, hard-working and talented, but nobody wanted to hire somebody who would not work on Saturday. Finally, he was hired to pluck feathers from geese to stuff blankets and pillows. This was a menial job, but he worked diligently and managed to keep the job for several months. But one Friday, his boss called him over and said that he had just received a very large order, and needed extra hours of work. As Rabbi Sklar was an exceptionally diligent worker, the boss wanted him to come into work on Saturday to produce the extra volume of merchandise. But Rabbi Sklar refused. “Why can’t you be like the others, who attend the early prayer services and then come into work?” the boss asked. “What’s the problem with that?” The Rabbi still refused, and he was fired. A short while later, whatever money he had ran out, and he did not even have any food. Finally, he stumbled upon a job shoveling coals into a heating furnace of an apartment building. He would go into the basement of the building each morning, clear out the furnace, and then shovel coals into the furnace. This entailed backbreaking work, but the Rabbi had no choice. A wealthy Jewish lawyer happened to live in a penthouse on the top floor of that building. One day, he mistakenly pressed the wrong button in the elevator, and ended up in the basement of the building, instead of the lobby. When he arrived at the basement, he saw a Hassidic Rabbi shoveling coals into the furnace. “Rabbi,” the attorney asked, “why are you shoveling coals?” Rabb Sklar explained that this was the only job he could find. “Clean yourself up and come into my office,” the lawyer said. “I want to speak with you.” Rabbi Sklar did as the man told him. He cleaned himself and went up to the office, where the lawyer’s secretary was told to let him in. He sat in the lawyer’s office, and the lawyer told him to look out the window at the Chicago skyline. “You see that building over there,” he told Rabbi Sklar, pointing. “I am planning to buy that building soon. I want to make you my 5% percent partner in this venture. You are a Rabbi, so you will be my ‘good luck charm’ in this enterprise.” “But I have no money,” the Rabbi said. “Don’t worry,” the lawyer assured him. “I will lend you the money, and you can pay me back with your earnings as a 5% partner after we sell the building.” The Rabbi agreed, and became this man’s partner. They embarked on numerous ventures together, and were very successful. Finally, they purchased a large piece of property on the outskirts of Chicago, which ultimately became the site of O’Hare International Airport. Practically overnight, Rabbi Sklar became a multimillionaire. He moved to Lakewood where he was a bastion of charity, extending generous assistance to all who needed it. He had to endure several grueling tests, losing his job because of Shabbat, and then having to perform backbreaking work, but these tests paved the way for Hashem’s blessings. Another story is told of a man named Mr. Friedman who opened a simple curtain business, and later developed it into a wholesale business. One day, at a trade show, he made an appointment with representatives from a large hotel chain. This was an opportunity to make a very large deal that would earn a huge profit. The meeting took place on Friday afternoon, and as the parties were negotiating, Mr. Friedman kept his eye on his watch to ensure that he would leave in time for Shabbat. Finally, as the hour drew late, he apologized to the hotel representatives, and said he needed to go. “We are leaving at the end of the trade show,” they said. “If you leave now, the deal is over.” The man explained he had no choice, and he left. He was not prepared to compromise Shabbat observance for the sake of a profit. On Monday, he received a call from the hotel chain. “After you left we reconsidered,” they said. “We realized that somebody could take advantage of us, which would cost us hundreds of thousands of dollars. But if you are so honest that you were prepared to lose all this money for the sake of your religion, then we can trust you.” They closed the deal. Before Hashem brings us blessing, He first has us withstand tests. Shabbat, the מקור הברכה , offers special tests for us to withstand, whereby we become deserving of great reward and the unlimited blessings that Hashem has in store for us.

Weekly Shabbat thoughts with Rabbi David Sutton

NOW PLAYING

Passing Life's Tests

0:00 0:00

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

NEWMORROW SESSIONS - A PodCast Series on the Future of Hospitality Mario C. Bauer, Florian Schneider, Axel Weber & Dr. Tillman Bardt The Newmorrow PodCast is more than a podcast — it's a platform for open dialog on the future of our business, a platform for those building what doesn’t exist yet. Here, we share and embrace our passion for the hospitality industry, but we won’t romanticize the journey. We ask the tough questions, confront uncomfortable truths, and prepare for a future that resists easy answers. We believe that the tougher and wilder times become, the more openly, honestly and humanely people need to talk to each other and act together. We believe, openness, togetherness, and truthfulness should also be cornerstones of a professional community to develop our utopian idea of „open source“. This is a space where visionaries don’t just imagine the future — they wrestle with the paradoxes that shape it: success vs. happiness, data vs. instinct, stability vs. reinvention. Join leaders, entrepreneurs, and thinkers as they share not what made them — but what’s actively shaping them, now and next. So tune in A Sip of Aesthetics For Our Sun Productions Welcome to a sip of aesthetics, the podcast that dives into the world of skincare, aesthetics, and wellness. Join Dr. Adam and expert guests as they explore the latest trends, debunk myths, and share transformative stories of NU Med Spa. Whether you're seeking tips for radiant skin or insights into cutting-edge treatments, each episode will empower you to embrace your beauty from the inside out. Tune in for engaging discussions that go beyond the surface! Carnivores Don't Get Sunburn - Carnivore Diet Talks Carnivores Don't Get Sunburn - Carnivore Diet Talks Welcome to “Carnivores Don’t Get Sunburn,” where we have fun and explore the carnivore diet and its transformative power. Join us as we uncover real stories from individuals who have thrived on this diet, defying convention and embracing optimal health. Plus, stay tuned for our upcoming documentary featuring diverse carnivores overcoming health challenges. Learn more at www.carnivoredietdocumentary.com.Excitingly, we’re working on an upcoming documentary where we’ll feature carnivores from various walks of life, conquering diverse health challenges. Join us on this journey and learn more at www.carnivoredietdocumentary.com.Join us in uncovering the power of the carnivore diet. Prepare to be inspired, informed, and empowered to embrace optimal health and well-being.Welcome to “Carnivores Don’t Get Sunburn: Unveiling Real Stories of the Carnivore Diet.” Stay tuned for our upcoming documentary. Discover how this lifestyle can transform lives. Learn more at www.carnivoredietdocumentary.com Primal AF Jimmy Napolitano Welcome to the Primal AF Podcast with your host, Jimmy Napolitano, where we explore the journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and transformation in pursuit of a balanced and fulfilling life. Join Jimmy and his guests as they share powerful and raw personal stories of breaking free from non-serving habits, overcoming adversity, and evolving into stronger, better versions of themselves. This podcast is for those seeking inspiration and guidance in their own personal development journey, especially men looking to overcome their struggles and discover the greatness within themselves. If you're ready to ignite your own transformation and embrace a life of fulfillment, purpose, and authenticity, tune in to the Primal AF Podcast.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Embrace Shabbat?

Episode duration information is not available.

When was this Embrace Shabbat episode published?

This episode was published on October 20, 2023.

What is this episode about?

The Gemara in Masechet Berachot (18b) tells of a certain hasid (pious man) who once gave a significant sum of money to a poor person on Erev Rosh Hashanah, during a period of drought. When he arrived home, his wife became very angry that he gave...

Can I download this Embrace Shabbat episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!