Permission to Pivot

Some days, it feels impossible to keep up with the timelines, the pressures and expectations — it all becomes too loud.And then, someone comes along who reminds you that you are allowed to live many lives in one lifetime — and none of them have to make sense to anyone else but you.That’s what today’s conversation with multidimensional mami, Mackenzie of @onthematwithmack brings: a breath of authenticity and honesty, a gut check, and the exact reminder you need if you’ve been questioning your direction, your goodness, your purpose, or the pace of your life.In this raw and grounded episode, we talk about what it really means to change your mind, pivot, forgive, start over, follow the pull, and trust that your life is allowed to look different every season.We chat:Why living multiple lives is normal (and actually healthy)The real reason we fear pivoting, even when it feels rightHow to release the “right timeline” myth and trust your own paceWhat to do when your past identities feel embarrassing or confusingThe grief, liberation and process of friendship breakupsHow to use curiosity > fear when starting something newThe power of sacred feminine angerHow to stay human off and online while being perceivedThis episode isn’t just a conversation. It’s a reset — a reminder that you’re allowed to grow, quit, begin again, unravel, bloom, and reinvent without needing to justify any of it.If you’re in a season of transition, confusion, or reinvention… this one is for you.Also, if you loved this episode, check out: Shedding, Syncing, Surrendering, Oh My! Connect with me on socials: INSTA: @asoftplacetolandpod TIKTOK: @asoftplacetolandpod Timestamps: 00:00 - new podcast intro and mackenzie’s intro01:20 - curiosity over fear04:30 - resources and risk taking07:00 - lore of life and multidimensionality 10:10 - dream jobs don’t exist12:40 - evolving through eras14:30 - creating peace with uncertain timelines18:50 - fear based decisions and cycles22:14 - the impact of perception and being human26:30 - testament to your self-trust30:10 - grounding in your sense of self34:11 - navigating the impact of friendship breakups37:08 - shining a light on personal strength 40:34 - embracing complex self-compassion43:20 - sacred feminine anger45:50 - autoimmune connection to feminine suppression 47:37 - self expression for your soul50:30 - connecting with your wild woman archetype52:17 - matriarchal medicine55:17 - feminine somatic embodiment57:15 - healing through healthy relationships#healing #feminineenergy #multidimensonality #personalgrowth #selfcompassion