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EPISODE · May 15, 2023 · 36 MIN

Perspective, Paying Attention & The Platinum Rule | Jennifer Furlong | Part 2

from Stories Lived. Stories Told. · host Abbie VanMeter and The CMM Institute

Who are you inviting to your table? Who or what do you need to disinvite? What changes if we really start to believe that communication is not just about talking? How can we create change simply by listening and paying attention?How can we find a balance between advocating for our own stories and making space for the very different stories of others? How can we learn to collaborate with others rather than over-accommodating or over-dominating in relationships? …  Jennifer Arvin Furlong⁠ is a highly rated communication/media specialist with 30 years of experience in the communication industry and 18 years of experience teaching in higher education. She is the author of ⁠Mini-Handbook for Jackasses: Communication & Relationships⁠ and co-author of the #1 Amazon international best seller, ⁠Cracking the Rich Code⁠. She is a ⁠TEDx speaker⁠ and coach and host of the ⁠Communication TwentyFourSeven Podcast⁠. She is a Marine Corps veteran, a first-generation college graduate (B.A. and M.A. in Communication), a mom, and a breast cancer survivor. Listen to Part One of our conversation with Jennifer here: Communicating to Understand and be Understood | A Conversation with Jennifer Furlong.Today,  Jennifer talks about her experience of taking her wedding ring off for the first time after her divorce, letting herself feel all the emotions instead of acting like they don’t exist, and writing a new story for herself. Abbie and Jennifer discuss “intrapersonal communication” and the stories Jennifer was taught about emotions and relationships. Jennifer explains the importance of being “audience-centered,” considering frames of reference, and listening attentively. Finally, Abbie and Jennifer explore the Platinum Rule (“treat others the way they want to be treated”) as a way to create meaningful interactions....Stories Lived. Stories Told. is created, produced & hosted by Abbie VanMeter.Stories Lived. Stories Told. is an initiative of the CMM Institute for Personal and Social Evolution....Music for Stories Lived. Stories Told. is created by Rik Spann. Find Rik on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Listen to our conversation with Rik in ⁠⁠Ep. 8⁠⁠....⁠⁠⁠Explore all things Stories Lived. Stories Told.⁠⁠⁠Email me! [email protected] me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Subscribe on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Learn more about the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CMM Institute.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more about ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CMM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Learn more about

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Who are you inviting to your table? Who or what do you need to disinvite? What changes if we really start to believe that communication is not just about talking? How can we create change simply by listening and paying attention? How can we find a balance between advocating for our own stories and making space for the very different stories of others? How can we learn to collaborate with others rather than over-accommodating or over-dominating in relationships? … Jennifer A...

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