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Pharaoh Also Repented

Most Christian men (me included) know how to confess sin. I have the words down. But what happens when the pressure lifts, the consequences fade, and my heart quietly returns to normal? In this episode, I notice that Pharaoh makes two confessions that sound like real repentance, and yet he hardens again the moment relief comes. From there, I wrestle with the difference between worldly grief and godly grief, why “Jesus is Lord” was never meant to be a cheap phrase, and why staying soft-hearted usually requires other men close enough to exhort me before sin deceives me.

Episode 47 of the Elder My City, with Tim Schmoyer podcast, hosted by Schmoyer Media, titled "Pharaoh Also Repented" was published on March 27, 2026 and runs 20 minutes.

March 27, 2026 ·20m · Elder My City, with Tim Schmoyer

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Most Christian men (me included) know how to confess sin. I have the words down. But what happens when the pressure lifts, the consequences fade, and my heart quietly returns to normal? In this episode, I notice that Pharaoh makes two confessions that sound like real repentance, and yet he hardens again the moment relief comes. From there, I wrestle with the difference between worldly grief and godly grief, why “Jesus is Lord” was never meant to be a cheap phrase, and why staying soft-hearted usually requires other men close enough to exhort me before sin deceives me.

Most of us have learned a version of repentance that works great in the moment: say the right words, feel the weight, promise change. But Exodus shows a terrifying pattern: Pharaoh confesses twice, sounds sincere, and then hardens again as soon as the hail stops.

This episode is a gut-check for me, because I’ve been quick to confess and slow to change more times than I want to admit. I’m not just asking, “Did I feel bad?” I’m asking, “Did I turn around?”

Topics covered in this episode

  • The two moments Pharaoh “repents” (Exodus 9–10) and why they sound genuine to me
  • What changed when the pressure lifted, and why Pharaoh’s servants hardened with him
  • The difference between worldly grief and godly grief (2 Corinthians 7:10)
  • Why “Jesus is Lord” was a costly allegiance statement, not a low-cost religious phrase (Romans 10:9)
  • What repentance actually means (metanoia): a change of mind that produces a change of direction
  • Why I can’t fight hardness of heart alone (Hebrews 3:12–13)
  • Confession, prayer, and healing in brotherhood (James 5:16)
  • Practical ways I’m pursuing the kind of men who will exhort me before sin deceives me

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