Planting Positivity - Growing Positivity No 19 - Idle Gossip

When I was younger, I used to be a terrible gossip, I loved it, and I loved the drama of it. You know what I mean? The hushed voices, the secretive admissions and the disclosures, “she said…. Blaa blaa” “ooooh no she didn’t did she?” etc, do you get the idea? It was fascinating and exhilarating. If we were talking about another person not present, well that did not matter because they were not present, they were not to know, were they?I never saw this as a negative thing at all. However, it is negative in its energy. If what you say behind a person’s back would hurt them if they were to hear it, then energetically the damage has been done. The energy behind what you say, if you are being kind or being mean, radiate off you and brings that energy back to you at some point. A hurtful word causes distress, upset somewhere, to someone. This will go out and bring back to you a hurtful thing one way or another, like ripples on a pond.What you put out you get back!If you are judging somebody harshly then you will be judged harshly. It will have an impact on you.It is important to treat people how you would like to be treated yourself. If you look for the positive in any situation and with anybody then others will do the same for you. If you give leniency- this means if you are tolerant, or you lighten the punishment, you make it easier for the other person, you will receive leniency. If at times school/work over whelms you and you need help, tolerance, assistance, understanding if you put these things out you will receive them back. Not always from the same person you gave to, initially.