Positive Impact of Labeling Someone

Good morning, Five Minute Families. While the rain has been falling quite a bit both literally and figuratively, we are thankful to the Lord for His provision of water to grow the plants and His love to get through the storms. Here at Clear View Retreat, we never deny that tough things happen in life. But, we do not go through any difficulties on earth without Hope - His Hope. We desire to be part of the equipping solution, pointing you and ourselves to God’s healing and guiding Word to bring us through any highs or lows that come along as we seek Him.Last week, we began a two-part series about labels. But, today, we want to focus on the positive, and the reality is that some labels CAN BE good. They can be helpful, and they are sometimes necessary. Additionally, positive labels help a family build a stronger family identity. And, those family identity labels need to be grounded in God’s Word. The first label to explore today is MINE. No, we aren’t referring to the movie seagulls screaming out, “MINE, MINE, MINE” in selfishness. Isaiah 43:1 says, “Now this is what the Lord says—the one who created you, Jacob, and the one who formed you, Israel—“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; you are mine.” God says we are HIS. He claims us as His own. He does not say we are His if we are good enough, if we behave well enough, if we make enough, if we achieve enough. We are HIS because He called us. The second label is CHILDREN. 1 John 4:4 is one of the verses that God has in His word referring to us as children - “You are from God, little children, and you have conquered them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.” And, as Lisa Whittle writes, “Jesus did not create us to wear the labels of this world, even the ones we place on ourselves. Instead, He created us as His ‘dearly loved children’ (Ephesians 5:1).” Dearly loved children, we are held close to the Lord. He labels us because He loves us even better than we love our children. We take care of them, we teach them, we support them, but we are HIS children.The third label we’ll discuss today is COMMUNITY. In Romans 12:3-8 God reminds us that we are members of one another. Specifically, in verse 5, “in the same way we who are many are one body in Christ and individually members of one another.” Additionally, labels help provide a sense of community. The community is something your family or family member is involved with, or it can even be a literal support group helping you better understand your family’s unique challenges - whether that is due to an illness or ongoing need.The fourth label is CAPABLE. My favorite verses of the Bible are 2 Peter 1:5-8, “Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge, and in your knowledge, self-control, and in your self-control, perseverance, and in your perseverance, godliness, and in your godliness, brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness, love. For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they render you neither useless nor unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” My fellow five minute families, you are capable. You won’t get it all right, all at once, but we are each capable of growing closer and closer to God and becoming more and more like His Son every day.The fifth and final label for today is BLAMELESS. Colossians 1:22 points out, “Yet now he has reconciled you to himself through the death of Christ in his physical body. As a result, he has brought you into his own presence, and you are holy and BLAMELESS as you stand before him without a single fault.” Last week, we included 1 Samuel 16:7 and intentionally left off the last part - “but the Lord looks on the heart.” Labels can destroy us if they are misused, but they can also give us motivation and proper self-development. We can seek God’s will and know that as He looks on our hearts, He will guide us into good goals and proper environments, and having proper labels of who we are IN Christ and who we are TO Christ are of paramount importance. Five Minute families, as we walk into a new week, we need to think about the labels we have placed on ourselves and our loved ones. Evaluate what labels you are using, and ask God to lead your family into a greater understanding of who He is and who you are in Him.Thank you for joining us today. We pray that God will guide your endeavors and lead you in growing your five minutes a day with your family into a lifetime of love, support, and compassion. Be blessed!