Problem #22: Ménage à trois (3-somes) & slut shaming ft. Tai

Why is it so hard for men to accept equality in the bedroom when it comes to sharing partners and why do women tend to have the shorter end of the stick when threesomes/trains come into play while the man gets pleasured by various women and its highly fetishized. Is it homophobia or just more heterosexual norms in play? if you are a heterosexual girl or young woman, you are damned if you don’t and damned if you do. If you refrain from any expression of sexiness, you may be written off as irrelevant and unfeminine. But if you follow the guidelines, you run the risk of being judged, shamed and policed. If you have orgies and threesomes and are in-tune with your sexuality, you are seen as a hoe, too many bodies or even dirty and not worthy of marriage. But a man can have various sexual partners or participate in a train, and still get the best pick to bring home to mom. Is it a form of slut shaming or just terrible double standards?  Resources: How to support BLM: https://www.timeout.com/things-to-do/how-to-support-black-lives-matter Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, IG: @Betterhelp, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com BetterHelp is free for 1 month not just 1 week specifically with our link: https://www.betterhelp.com/thoughtfulhuman/ Cosmopolitan: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sexopedia/a8244294/threesome-sex-definition/ The difference between a 3-some, an orgy and a train: https://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-orange-county/personal-space/threesome-orgy-sex-train-definition Slut-shaming: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-truth-about-slut-shaming_b_7054162 Guest Details: About: Taiwo aka Tai Social media: King_taiwo Website: https://www.instagram.com/king_taiwo/ Socials: Interact with us on Social Media! Listen & Subscribe: https://linktr.ee/Sandrazo Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4vxFpB8ofKwqqjUjtncPVg IG: igotproblemspod Podcast website: https://anchor.fm/igotproblems Production Notes: Produced by Dolapo of the "Terminal 234" podcast Edited by Host: Sandra [IG: coitraveler] Co-Host #1: Anabelle [IG: msjudy_1028] Co-Host #2: Doyin [IG: msdoyinjay]