Q&A: How do I tell my children we're getting divorced?

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Emily Upshur and I talk about...   - The best way parents can tell their children that they are planning to separate or get divorced. - How to approach this conversation in a way that helps children feel safe, supported, and loved. - What parents should share, what they should avoid sharing, and why it's important to focus on what you know rather than what you don't know yet. - The key reassurances every child needs to hear, even if they never ask the questions out loud. - Why children of different ages may react very differently to the news and how to tailor your approach to your child's developmental stage. - How to respond when children react with sadness, anger, blame, resistance, or seemingly no reaction at all. - Practical ways to help children adjust to changes in the family while maintaining a sense of stability and connection. - When it may be helpful to involve a therapist or family professional for additional support.   This episode will help you approach one of the most difficult conversations a family can face with greater confidence, compassion, and clarity while supporting your child's emotional well-being through the transition.     REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:   👉 Navigating separation or divorce? Upshur Bren Psychology Group offers specialized support at every stage of the process, including therapy and coaching, parenting and co-parenting support, family therapy, and weekly divorce groups for women and children. Whether you're in the middle of a split or adjusting to a new family structure, our team is here to help you and your children feel steady and supported. Visit upshurbren.com to learn more or schedule a free 30-minute consultation call to find the right support for your family.     CHECK OUT ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:   🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about busting divorce myths and breaking down the true effect it has on children with Michelle Dempsey-Multack   🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about navigating divorce or separation through a family systems approach with Una Archer   🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about whether "nesting" during a divorce better for your kids?   WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:   Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!