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EPISODE · Jun 29, 2026 · 7 MIN

[Review] The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (Esther Perel) Summarized.

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The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (Esther Perel) - Amazon USA Store: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072W97SV2?tag=9natree-20 - Amazon Worldwide Store: https://global.buys.trade/The-State-of-Affairs%3A-Rethinking-Infidelity-Esther-Perel.html - Apple Books: https://books.apple.com/us/audiobook/clean-slate-an-audible-original-novella-original/id6783514851?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ls=1&at=1001l3bAw&ct=9natree - eBay: https://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_nkw=The+State+of+Affairs+Rethinking+Infidelity+Esther+Perel+&mkcid=1&mkrid=711-53200-19255-0&siteid=0&campid=5339060787&customid=9natree&toolid=10001&mkevt=1 - Read more: https://english.9natree.com/read/B072W97SV2/ #emotionaleconomicsofadultery #secrecyandrevelation #jealousyandbetrayal #monogamyunderpressure #relationshiprepairafterinfidelity #TheStateofAffairs The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity is a nonfiction relationship book by psychotherapist Esther Perel. Framed as a cultural and psychological examination of affairs, it challenges the idea that infidelity can be understood only as moral failure or simple betrayal. Perel argues that cheating often reveals deeper tensions around desire, identity, intimacy, loneliness, and the expectations placed on modern partnership. Drawing on her clinical experience with couples, she explores why affairs happen, why they hurt so profoundly, and why they remain such a persistent feature of long-term relationships. The book is not a manual for preventing betrayal or a step-by-step recovery guide. Instead, it aims to broaden the conversation by bringing nuance, compassion, and realism to a topic that is usually discussed in black-and-white terms. Its purpose is to help readers think more carefully about monogamy, secrecy, longing, and the possibility of repairing relationships after rupture.

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (Esther Perel) - Amazon USA Store: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072W97SV2?tag=9natree-20 - Amazon Worldwide Store: https://global.buys.trade/The-State-of-Affairs%3A-Rethinking-Infidelity-Esther-Perel.html - Apple Books: https://books.apple.com/us/audiobook/clean-slate-an-audible-original-novella-original/id6783514851?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ls=1&at=1001l3bAw&ct=9natree - eBay: https://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_nkw=The+State+of+Affairs+Rethinking+Infidelity+Esther+Perel+&mkcid=1&mkrid=711-53200-19255-0&siteid=0&campid=5339060787&customid=9natree&toolid=10001&mkevt=1 - Read more: https://english.9natree.com/read/B072W97SV2/ #emotionaleconomicsofadultery #secrecyandrevelation #jealousyandbetrayal #monogamyunderpressure #relationshiprepairafterinfidelity #TheStateofAffairs The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity is a nonfiction relationship book by psychotherapist Esther Perel. Framed as a cultural and psychological examination of affairs, it challenges the idea that infidelity can be understood only as moral failure or simple betrayal. Perel argues that cheating often reveals deeper tensions around desire, identity, intimacy, loneliness, and the expectations placed on modern partnership. Drawing on her clinical experience with couples, she explores why affairs happen, why they hurt so profoundly, and why they remain such a persistent feature of long-term relationships. The book is not a manual for preventing betrayal or a step-by-step recovery guide. Instead, it aims to broaden the conversation by bringing nuance, compassion, and realism to a topic that is usually discussed in black-and-white terms. Its purpose is to help readers think more carefully about monogamy, secrecy, longing, and the possibility of repairing relationships after rupture.

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