S-4 E-11 I'm Offended!(what that means and why it happens.)

Send us Fan MailThis week, Ashton did some research and we talk about what offense means, where it comes from, and what we can do when we experience it in our life. How do you handle offense? We would love to hear your thoughts!#adultingdecrypted #likeanadult #offendedSHOW NOTES:00:00 Offence is complicated01:00 Into01:35 It begins! Welcome back to the woodshed03:26 Everyone shares their feelings on what being offended means06:25 Some reasearch on what the feeling of, “offence” is.09:44 Why we feel offence.14:10 The foreseeability expectation21:30 Ashton’s awkward story & Dad’s first job story25:20 The Equity Expectation31:35 The Reciprocity Ecpectation33:00 Anxiety can lead to being more easily offended35:10 Guilt can lead to being more easily offended37:10  Expecting the world to be nice can lead to being more easily offended.41:45 Having parents who struggle can lead to children who struggle with taking offence.46:30 Gene’s Final thoughts.47:10 Dad’s Final thoughts.48:20 A wrap up and a question Support the show