S1 E27. The Emperor is naked!

Very often the black sheep is the one with integrity and compassion. They’re never the ones that badmouth their abusers. It’s the other way around. They’re also the ones with tremendous capacity to absorb all the blows for themselves as well as for other family members. So if you encounter someone who’s difficult and hard to like, please consider being kind to them. They’re not the office politicians, the corporate smooth talkers, the charmers. They’re the weirdos the ones people call unhinged. They often get secondary abuse from people who don’t know their history. But if you give them a chance, it can shift their path from possible suicide to self actualization. They sink or they fly. All it takes is one person, one word, or one moment to alter their path. What part would you like to play in this game of Russian roulette? What goes through the mind of the black sheep before they awaken is a jumble of contradictory thoughts. This leads to indecisiveness, anxiety, and depression. If you feel this way, I have a few tips to guide you to the path you’re most comfortable with. 1. Know that you were programmed this way. Get to know yourself. 2. Try to remember what your beliefs were when you were a child. If you’re a black sheep, scapegoat, or truth see’er there’s a very high chance that you were right all along. 3. You’re not fearful. You were trained to be afraid because of your innate power. 4.Fearful people are vengeful. You could be completely ostracized, stripped off your inheritance, and nobody will care about you. I really don’t want to be negative but this is to help you see the possible consequences, and to help you decide whether to stay or to go. 5. Stop explaining. They’re committed to misunderstanding you. It’s not your fault. It’s not that you didn’t communicate clearly. If you keep wondering how to improve the way you communicate it’ll keep you in the hamster wheel. This will drive you crazy.   6. Keep in mind that once you, the truth seeing scapegoat leaves, the equation changes. 2 things can happen - Everyone will scramble to find a replacement. Or, You could remain the scapegoat even from afar. 7. Your soul tribe will come to you. If you’re a truth see’er, it’s in your nature, you can’t change that. And you can’t change others. When you’re genuine and authentic, your soul tribe will find its way to you. You don’t have to search outside. You just have to find yourself, hold on to who you are, and what’s yours will come to you. 8. Don’t pretend to be OK. If you pretend you’re fine when you’re not, you won’t enter this dark tunnel. At the end of this tunnel, there’s something far better than any content on Instagram and tiktok. Far richer than any travel destination. You have grit. You can do it! Website Instagram YouTube Facebook