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EPISODE · Mar 31, 2026 · 13 MIN

S3 E11 - Guilt: the ADHD ‘always in trouble’ feeling.

from Glitchy Switch: What ADHD feels like to an adult. · host Martin Gale

In this episode of Glitchy Switch, I share a penny-drop moment I’ve had since my autism diagnosis: the way my brain’s pattern-matching can sometimes turn uncertainty into instant self-blame — even when there’s no evidence I’ve done anything wrong.  I talk about how the same “make it make sense” engine that’s built my career can become a trap with humans, why being seemingly socially punished can trigger a reflex guilt response, and the simple reframe that’s helped me stop turning myself inside out trying to find the fault.  In this episode: The difference between normal guilt and that reflex “I must fix this” guilt.  How autistic pattern-matching and hyperfocus can become relief-seeking when things don’t make sense.  Why working with people is harder than working with systems — and why uncertainty feels like internal static.  The moment I noticed my brain “click into guilt mode”, and what helped me interrupt the spiral.  The new rule I’m practising as a reframe. Get in touch: LinkedIn 👉🏻  https://bit.ly/3wK0pzz Email 👉🏻  [email protected] Note: This podcast is shared purely as first-hand experiences to help others and should not be considered medical advice. Listeners should seek proper guidance if they have concerns or questions of a medical nature.

In this episode of Glitchy Switch, I share a penny-drop moment I’ve had since my autism diagnosis: the way my brain’s pattern-matching can sometimes turn uncertainty into instant self-blame — even when there’s no evidence I’ve done anything wrong.  I talk about how the same “make it make sense” engine that’s built my career can become a trap with humans, why being seemingly socially punished can trigger a reflex guilt response, and the simple reframe that’s helped me stop turning myself inside out trying to find the fault.  In this episode: The difference between normal guilt and that reflex “I must fix this” guilt.  How autistic pattern-matching and hyperfocus can become relief-seeking when things don’t make sense.  Why working with people is harder than working with systems — and why uncertainty feels like internal static.  The moment I noticed my brain “click into guilt mode”, and what helped me interrupt the spiral.  The new rule I’m practising as a reframe. Get in touch: LinkedIn 👉🏻  https://bit.ly/3wK0pzz Email 👉🏻  [email protected] Note: This podcast is shared purely as first-hand experiences to help others and should not be considered medical advice. Listeners should seek proper guidance if they have concerns or questions of a medical nature.

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