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EPISODE · Oct 19, 2025 · 1H 15M

Struggling w/Friendships

from Thirty Flirty and Trying · host NoLo and Chris

OMG Hello again, frahnd! Welcome back to Thirty, Flirty & Trying!This season, the struggle continues. Relationships, whether platonic, romantic, familial, or otherwise, take time and patience to cultivate and, honestly, ain’t nobody got time for that😔 Tbh, our social lives feel out of control and on the decline. Juggling time to love on our friends, partners, and family feels overwhelming and almost impossible in a culture that requires us to overwork ourselves. So in season 2, we share how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.We’re starting with the growing pains of friendship. Whether you’re trying to make it work with your day-ones, growing closer with besties or growing apart, this episode is for you. Pull up a chair, grab your wine or cafecito, and lets talk about things we should be saving for our therapists.What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Friendships are so complex, and the world isn't black or white, so we're interested to hear how you've dealt with similar situations before and what you think about it now that you've had time to reflect. Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube!ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Social Lives! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼📲 Let's yapPatreon: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠😊NoLo's SocialsIG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠😘Chris' SocialsIG:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

OMG Hello again, frahnd! Welcome back to Thirty, Flirty & Trying!This season, the struggle continues. Relationships, whether platonic, romantic, familial, or otherwise, take time and patience to cultivate and, honestly, ain’t nobody got time for that😔 Tbh, our social lives feel out of control and on the decline. Juggling time to love on our friends, partners, and family feels overwhelming and almost impossible in a culture that requires us to overwork ourselves. So in season 2, we share how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.We’re starting with the growing pains of friendship. Whether you’re trying to make it work with your day-ones, growing closer with besties or growing apart, this episode is for you. Pull up a chair, grab your wine or cafecito, and lets talk about things we should be saving for our therapists.What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Friendships are so complex, and the world isn't black or white, so we're interested to hear how you've dealt with similar situations before and what you think about it now that you've had time to reflect. Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube!ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Social Lives! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼📲 Let's yapPatreon: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=c...⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://substack.com/@thirtyflirtytryingpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thirtyflirtytryingpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ThirtyFlirtyTryingPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠😊NoLo's SocialsIG:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@itsnolo_xo⁠😘Chris' SocialsIG:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthecity_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ;⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠@chrisandthehobbies⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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