That Mother

Parents who have brain injuries often report that not only has their ability to carry out parenting roles been affected by their injury, but also their relationship with their children and what they can tolerate, has changed. Parents caring for a brain injured child, often struggle with finding a balance between being a parent or a medical caregiver.  Some parents have difficulty adjusting to the changes going on with their child because they may not be able to "see" an injury, feel helpless, or guilty.Sometimes it is the changes in relationships that are the most difficult to adjust to.Sometimes, as a mother, we can feel invisible.  We may feel misunderstood, not listened to, or like we can't be ourselves. All of this puts an enormous strain on relationships and our own self-esteem.  We just have to remember that doing the best we can is enough - even if what that "best" looks like changes from day to day, or moment to moment.  Whether a survivor, caregiver, or provider - just embrace being THAT MOTHERAdditional information and resources at hopetbi.com