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EPISODE · Apr 16, 2026 · 19 MIN

The Calm One (And Why She’s So Tired)

from Allegedly · host The Source

In the last episode, we talked about toggling.The different versions of ourselves we step into depending on where we are and who we’re with.This episode is about one of those versions.The calm one.The one who doesn’t escalate.The one who keeps things steady.The one people rely on.The one who gets very tired.In this episode, I talk about what it really means to be “the calm one”—and how it can quietly turn into something else.Something that looks like strength on the outside…But feels like carrying things that were never yours to hold.This is Allegedly.And I’m The Source.Submit your stories on my website: Submit a Story — Allegedly

In the last episode, we talked about toggling.The different versions of ourselves we step into depending on where we are and who we’re with.This episode is about one of those versions.The calm one.The one who doesn’t escalate.The one who keeps things steady.The one people rely on.The one who gets very tired.In this episode, I talk about what it really means to be “the calm one”—and how it can quietly turn into something else.Something that looks like strength on the outside…But feels like carrying things that were never yours to hold.This is Allegedly.And I’m The Source.Submit your stories on my website: Submit a Story — Allegedly

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