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EPISODE · Oct 21, 2025 · 59 MIN

The Enemy Trance: Why We See The Other Side as Evil & How to Break the Spell (ft. Larry Rosen)

from The Jolie Higazi Podcast · host Jolie Higazi

Are our political divisions an accident, or are we being used? [Timestamps below]Join us for a powerful conversation with Larry Rosen, founder of the groundbreaking Enemies Project, where he brings together people with diametrically opposed beliefs to find peace, not agreement. Larry, a successful mediator for over two decades, shares the stunning realization that led him to start his viral video series: our natural instinct to convince others is actually what makes political discourse a disaster.In this episode, we dive deep into: The "Enemy Trance": Larry's theory on the neuroscience of division. Learn how our brain's empathy literally shuts down when we perceive a threat, leading us into a temporary state of "autistic psychopathy" toward our opponents.Moral Language is the Language of War: Why denouncing your opponents as "evil," even if you believe you're morally right, is ultimately ineffective and only serves to motivate them to fight you at any cost.The Extremes Feed Each Other (Enemy Biosis): Larry discusses how conflict is self-sustaining, leading to deep analysis on global conflicts, trauma, and why political leaders are often less likely to seek peace when their power depends on the war.The Cost of Power: Who truly benefits when the Left and the Right despise each other? Larry argues that political and media figures actively stoke this division for power, and how ordinary citizens are being used as pawns in a war we don't want.Your Form of Protest: Larry reveals his three-part mission for change, including the "I'm Listening" campaign, which aims to empower ordinary people to reject enemy makers and demonstrate that peace is doable.Larry warns that the inability to cooperate is Issue Zero—the one problem that prevents us from solving all others. This conversation offers a beacon of hope and a practical, revolutionary approach to finding common ground.Watch the full episode to understand the psychology of polarization and discover the unexpected key to peace.👉 Support the Movement:Kickstarter: Support the mission and help create more videos by donating. https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/... Join the "I'm Listening" Campaign: If you're ready to get involved in a real movement of connection, reach out to [email protected] to participate.🔗 Resources Mentioned:The Enemies Project Website: https://www.enemiesproject.org/The Transgender Episode:    • Can a Trans Woman Befriend a MAGA Mama?  1:27 Why Persuasion Fails: The Core Problem5:52 The "Enemy Trance": Empathy Shutdown9:26 Case Study: The Transgender Episode (Eve & Nancy)13:53 Issue Zero: Where Political Division is Leading Society16:59 The Link Between Trauma and Polarization22:16 Who Benefits? The Role of "Enemy Makers"28:58 Moral Language is the Language of War: Focus on Effectiveness33:00 The Power of the Show: Change is Possible45:00 Enemy Biosis: Why Global Leaders Struggle for Peace55:13 Call to Action: Support the "I'm Listening" Movement58:00 Final Message: "Don't Lose Hope"

Are our political divisions an accident, or are we being used? [Timestamps below]Join us for a powerful conversation with Larry Rosen, founder of the groundbreaking Enemies Project, where he brings together people with diametrically opposed beliefs to find peace, not agreement. Larry, a successful mediator for over two decades, shares the stunning realization that led him to start his viral video series: our natural instinct to convince others is actually what makes political discourse a disaster.In this episode, we dive deep into: The "Enemy Trance": Larry's theory on the neuroscience of division. Learn how our brain's empathy literally shuts down when we perceive a threat, leading us into a temporary state of "autistic psychopathy" toward our opponents.Moral Language is the Language of War: Why denouncing your opponents as "evil," even if you believe you're morally right, is ultimately ineffective and only serves to motivate them to fight you at any cost.The Extremes Feed Each Other (Enemy Biosis): Larry discusses how conflict is self-sustaining, leading to deep analysis on global conflicts, trauma, and why political leaders are often less likely to seek peace when their power depends on the war.The Cost of Power: Who truly benefits when the Left and the Right despise each other? Larry argues that political and media figures actively stoke this division for power, and how ordinary citizens are being used as pawns in a war we don't want.Your Form of Protest: Larry reveals his three-part mission for change, including the "I'm Listening" campaign, which aims to empower ordinary people to reject enemy makers and demonstrate that peace is doable.Larry warns that the inability to cooperate is Issue Zero—the one problem that prevents us from solving all others. This conversation offers a beacon of hope and a practical, revolutionary approach to finding common ground.Watch the full episode to understand the psychology of polarization and discover the unexpected key to peace.👉 Support the Movement:Kickstarter: Support the mission and help create more videos by donating. https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/... Join the "I'm Listening" Campaign: If you're ready to get involved in a real movement of connection, reach out to [email protected] to participate.🔗 Resources Mentioned:The Enemies Project Website: https://www.enemiesproject.org/The Transgender Episode:    • Can a Trans Woman Befriend a MAGA Mama?  1:27 Why Persuasion Fails: The Core Problem5:52 The "Enemy Trance": Empathy Shutdown9:26 Case Study: The Transgender Episode (Eve & Nancy)13:53 Issue Zero: Where Political Division is Leading Society16:59 The Link Between Trauma and Polarization22:16 Who Benefits? The Role of "Enemy Makers"28:58 Moral Language is the Language of War: Focus on Effectiveness33:00 The Power of the Show: Change is Possible45:00 Enemy Biosis: Why Global Leaders Struggle for Peace55:13 Call to Action: Support the "I'm Listening" Movement58:00 Final Message: "Don't Lose Hope"

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