The Feedback You're Hearing Isn't the Feedback You Need

We know feedback is how we grow. We tell ourselves we want it. We believe we're open to it.But knowing something intellectually and experiencing it emotionally are two completely different things. And the gap between wanting feedback and truly letting it in sits quietly in the middle of most professionals' careers.In this episode, Leslie Ferry unpacks what's actually happening when feedback arrives, why we can struggle to truly receive it, and what changes when we recognize that feedback isn't a verdict. It's someone else's experience of us filtered through their wiring, not ours.In this episode:Why wanting feedback and acting on it productively are two different thingsWhat's happening subconsciously when feedback lands and why our wiring shapes what we hearThe difference between hearing feedback, and truly receiving it and why it's similar to how most people think about active listeningWhy the most confident professionals are often the most likely to quietly filter out what doesn't fitWhat the person giving feedback is actually offering and why even imperfect feedback is one of the only windows into how we're actually landingHow the Performance Loop™ — Intelligence × Reflection × Adjustment = Growth — applies directly to feedbackWhy managers face this dynamic in both directions simultaneouslyThe thinking in this episode is designed to provoke a question. Zandra is built to help you answer it — personally, in the context of your own work: zandra.app