The Illusion of Self-Control - Dear Atheist

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This week, I talk about something we rarely admit how easily we overestimate our self-control. From relationships that drag on too long to anger we think we can handle, I share honest stories, a little confession, and why true restraint isn’t willpower, but wisdom and grace.

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This episode was published on October 19, 2025.

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This week, I talk about something we rarely admit how easily we overestimate our self-control. From relationships that drag on too long to anger we think we can handle, I share honest stories, a little confession, and why true restraint isn’t...

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