The JOY of Menopause

In this deeply personal and powerful episode, host Shirley Weir sits down with her daughter Keira for an intimate conversation about women's health, menopause, generational shifts, and breaking the stigma around talking about our bodies. From the meaning behind Keira's "JOY" tattoo to the transformative jar exercise, this conversation spans three generations and explores how we can all become better health advocates.

An episode of the Menopause Chicks: This Show is Not About Menopause podcast, hosted by Shirley Weir , titled "The JOY of Menopause" was published on March 9, 2026 and runs 50 minutes.

March 9, 2026 ·50m · Menopause Chicks: This Show is Not About Menopause

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Summary

Episode Description

The Power of Language

Why words like "joy" matter when discussing menopause
The jar exercise: How language literally changes outcomes
Why "menopause" + "symptoms" do not belong in the same sentence OR at the very least, require a deeper understanding
Script Tips™️ for preparing for your health appointment and Shirley's proven "G.A.P. + S.P.E.A.K." framework (if you can

Becoming Your Best Health Advocate

Women continue to be dismissed and that's not ok for us, or the next generation!
How to prepare for healthcare conversations effectively
The importance of stating your health goals clearly
Understanding what you DESERVE from your health--as well as your healthcare team

Generational Shifts in Women's Health

How information access has changed (and complicated) the conversation
What's different for Gen Z versus previous generations
The mixed blessing of online health information
Breaking inherited narratives about aging and menopause

Personal Stories

Keira's "Joy" tattoo honoring her grandmother
Shirley's mother Joyce and the undiagnosed/untreated UTI-dementia connection
Keira's PCOS diagnosis and journey to advocacy
The "Love Letter to My Period" project
Why removing stigma starts with honest conversation

Practical Takeaways

The GAP-and-SPEAK acronym for doctor appointments
How to articulate symptoms AND, most importantly, impact to quality of life
The importance of preparing for healthcare visits
Why we need to stop tolerating things that impact our quality of life + share what we learn with (minimum) 3 other people: someone older, someone younger and a peer/friend/sister/colleague

TIMESTAMPS

(Select key moments)

00:00 - Introduction: Why this conversation?
04:30 - Keira's JOY tattoo story
06:45 - The jar exercise: How language shapes outcomes
15:00 - Why women leave doctor appointments disappointed
28:00 - The confusion of online health information
40:00 - Keira's PCOS journey and period advocacy
47:00 - The jar of 50+ goals for women's health before Shirley dies
50:00 - What gives us hope

QUOTES TO REMEMBER

"I deserve to feel amazing."

"Quality health information is competing with other health brands online - we're competing with the news and big brands like Four Seasons, Ford, Coca-Cola. We're ALL part of the attention economy, and only confident, informed consumers can decide what is meant for them."

"Women deserve quality information. They deserve quality explanations."

"Confidence is a decision that I'm making today."

RESOURCES MENTIONED

The "In Her Words" study (BC Women's Health Foundation)
GAP-and-SPEAK framework for doctor appointments (Menopause Chicks
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If this conversation resonated with you, please share it with three people: someone older, someone younger, and a peer. That's how we create change.

ABOUT THE HOST

Shirley Weir is the founder of Menopause Chicks and a passionate advocate for women's health education. She's on a mission to change the narrative around menopause and empower women to become their best health advocates.