The Myth of Authenticity

When most people say they want to “be authentic,” what they really mean is they want to be comfortable, says Dr. Laura Sicola.But “comfort zones and authenticity have nothing to do with each other when it comes to real performance,” she says.Laura Sicola is a cognitive linguist, communication expert, speaker, and coach who helps leaders become master influencers. Her TEDx presentation, “Want to Sound Like a Leader?” has been viewed approximately 7 million times.Laura joins Daniel and Peter today for a deep dive into authenticity and the myths around what it means to be an authentic leader.Tune in to learn:Why discomfort is so important to becoming a more influential leaderWhat sound boards can teach us about authenticityWhen code switching is healthy–and when it’s notAnyone who wants to grow is going to experience discomfort, Laura says. “Embrace the opportunity to consistently challenge yourself in ways that are healthily uncomfortable,” she says.Questions, comments, or topic ideas? Drop us an e-mail at [email protected] this episode:1:03 – Introduction: Dr. Laura Sicola2:07 – What Authenticity is NOT6:50 – Authentic Adaptation13:07 – The Leadership “Mixing Board”18:16 – Preferences vs. Values24:25 – Generational Authenticity32:04 – Closing ThoughtsResources:Dr. Laura Sicola’s Website“Want to Sound Like a Leader? Start by Saying Your Name Right,” TEDx TalkSpeaking to Influence: Mastering Your Leadership Voice, AmazonStewart Leadership Insights and Resources:Six Secrets to Your Leadership Growth5 Executive Presence “Superpowers” of Introverted Leaders6 Tips to Master the Language of Executive Presence5 Tips to Help You Lead a Global Team6 Tips to Build a Learning OrganizationThe Importance of Body Language in Executive Presence10 Tips That Will Improve Your Presentation SkillsHere Come the Zoomers!If you liked this episode, please share it with a friend or colleague, or, better yet, leave a review to help other listeners find our show, and remember to subscribe so you never miss an episode. For more great content or to learn about how Stewart Leadership can help you grow your ability to lead effectively, please visit stewartleadership.com and follow us on LinkedIn, Instagram, and YouTube.