The Perfectionism Trap for Women Lawyers

Perfectionism can feel safe — even responsible — but for many women lawyers, it quietly becomes a career-limiting habit.In this episode of The Pathway to Partnership Podcast, Cecilia Poullain explores how perfectionism shows up every day in law firms: not speaking up in meetings, staying silent on client calls, avoiding visibility, or holding back from leadership opportunities because you’re not 100% sure — and terrified of making a mistake.Through a real coaching story, Cecilia unpacks what’s really behind this hesitation: fear of shame, not incompetence. She explains why the consequences of “getting it wrong” are often far smaller than we imagine — and how staying silent can be far riskier in the long run.You’ll learn:Why perfectionism keeps women lawyers stuck — even as they approach partnershipThe crucial difference between perfectionism and excellencePractical tools to help you speak up with more confidence, including the little gap, the risk coin, and taking calibrated risksHow to build confidence in a way that works for you — especially if “fake it till you make it” doesn’tHow small, intentional steps can help you move from excellent lawyer to visible leaderThis episode is an invitation to notice the moments when perfectionism is making decisions for you — and to start choosing excellence instead.If you’re a woman lawyer aiming for partnership and finding yourself holding back, this conversation is for you.— CONNECT WITH ME — Download my free guide here:   "How to make partner in a law firm"