EPISODE · Apr 19, 2025 · 29 MIN
🎧 🚦 The Power of the PAUSE – Overcommitment, Saying NO & Rewriting Your Internal Script w Tina Fletcher/Soulmates & Suitcases/ EP 16
from Soulmates And Suitcases · host Lisa and Scott Brearley
🎧 Episode 16: 🚦 The Power of the PAUSE – Overcommitment, Saying NO & Rewriting Your Internal Script with Tina Fletcher💭 Feeling stretched too thin? Running on autopilot? Saying yes when you really want to say NO? It’s time to hit PAUSE. In this episode of Soulmates & Suitcases, we sit down with Tina Fletcher—writer, speaker, and fierce advocate for self-permission. Tina unpacks the stories we tell ourselves and how they keep us stuck in cycles of overcommitment, guilt, and exhaustion.💡 THE TRUTH: NO is a full sentence. So why do we struggle to say it?🎙️ What You'll Learn in This Episode:✅ The global challenge of overcommitment—why we all struggle with it✅ The power of the PAUSE—how to break the autopilot cycle✅ Why women, in particular, feel pressured to do it all✅ How to rewrite your internal communication for a more empowered life✅ The importance of creating space between the Ask and the Answer✅ Practical strategies to say NO—without guilt!🌟 Tina’s Top Tip: Check in with Yourself!Before saying YES, PAUSE. Ask yourself:👉 Is this aligned with what I truly want?👉 Am I committing out of guilt or authentic choice?💡 Want to Learn More? Connect with Tina Fletcher:🌎 Website: [Tina Fletcher Website](https://www.tinafletcher.com/ OR Self Permission)📌 Links & Resources🔥 A Year of Love – Rediscover love, healing & connection.💖 Six Months of Love – A deep dive into personal growth.🌪️ My Perfect Storm – Overcoming life’s toughest challenges.🎧 CONNECT & PURCHASE BOOKS with Scott & Lisa Brearley:🌐 Website: Forward Walking Choices📚 Books That Will Change Your Life🛍️ Exclusive Offers🌐 Lisa Facebook: Lisa Brearley🌐 Scott Facebook: Scott Brearley🎧 SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss future episodes!📺 YouTube: The Brearleys Podcast🎵 Spotify: Soulmates & Suitcases👇 What’s one area of life where you need to say NO more often? Drop a comment below! 👇📌 #SoulmatesAndSuitcases #Overcommitment #ThePowerOfThePause #SayingNo #WomenEmpowerment #TinaFletcher #SelfPermission #LisaBrearley #ScottBrearley #AYearOfLoveBook #SixMonthsOfLoveBook #MyPerfectStormBook #overcommittment #newepisode #sayingno #womanempowerment #personalgrowth #selfpermission #guilty #rewriteinternalscript #autopilot #lifebalance #guiltfree
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🎧 Episode 16: 🚦 The Power of the PAUSE – Overcommitment, Saying NO & Rewriting Your Internal Script with Tina Fletcher💭 Feeling stretched too thin? Running on autopilot? Saying yes when you really want to say NO? It’s time to hit PAUSE. In this episode of Soulmates & Suitcases, we sit down with Tina Fletcher—writer, speaker, and fierce advocate for self-permission. Tina unpacks the stories we tell ourselves and how they keep us stuck in cycles of overcommitment, guilt, and exhaustion.💡 THE TRUTH: NO is a full sentence. So why do we struggle to say it?🎙️ What You'll Learn in This Episode:✅ The global challenge of overcommitment—why we all struggle with it✅ The power of the PAUSE—how to break the autopilot cycle✅ Why women, in particular, feel pressured to do it all✅ How to rewrite your internal communication for a more empowered life✅ The importance of creating space between the Ask and the Answer✅ Practical strategies to say NO—without guilt!🌟 Tina’s Top Tip: Check in with Yourself!Before saying YES, PAUSE. Ask yourself:👉 Is this aligned with what I truly want?👉 Am I committing out of guilt or authentic choice?💡 Want to Learn More? Connect with Tina Fletcher:🌎 Website: [Tina Fletcher Website](https://www.tinafletcher.com/ OR Self Permission)📌 Links & Resources🔥 A Year of Love – Rediscover love, healing & connection.💖 Six Months of Love – A deep dive into personal growth.🌪️ My Perfect Storm – Overcoming life’s toughest challenges.🎧 CONNECT & PURCHASE BOOKS with Scott & Lisa Brearley:🌐 Website: Forward Walking Choices📚 Books That Will Change Your Life🛍️ Exclusive Offers🌐 Lisa Facebook: Lisa Brearley🌐 Scott Facebook: Scott Brearley🎧 SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss future episodes!📺 YouTube: The Brearleys Podcast🎵 Spotify: Soulmates & Suitcases👇 What’s one area of life where you need to say NO more often? Drop a comment below! 👇📌 #SoulmatesAndSuitcases #Overcommitment #ThePowerOfThePause #SayingNo #WomenEmpowerment #TinaFletcher #SelfPermission #LisaBrearley #ScottBrearley #AYearOfLoveBook #SixMonthsOfLoveBook #MyPerfectStormBook #overcommittment #newepisode #sayingno #womanempowerment #personalgrowth #selfpermission #guilty #rewriteinternalscript #autopilot #lifebalance #guiltfree
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