The Search for Control – Shelly Brown

Control feels safe until you realize it's keeping you small. In this episode, Eryn Eddy Adkins sits down with entrepreneur, boutique owner, designer, and Good Grit Magazine co-founder Shelly Brown to unpack the hidden ways we search for control when life feels chaotic. From tarot cards to crystals, Shelly opens up about her journey through spiritual searching, divorce, and the dangerous comfort of believing you're in control of your own story. They talk about what it really means to rebuild after loss, the lies we believe about being "too much" or "not enough," and why isolation keeps us stuck in unworthiness. Shelly shares how hospitality became her art form, why teenagers are underrated, and the freedom she found in letting go of perfection. She also gets real about dating after divorce, the pressure to look a certain way as you age, and why surrounding yourself with spiritually mature women changes everything. If you've ever felt like you had to have it all together or believed your brokenness made you less qualified for love, this conversation will remind you that your mess doesn't disqualify you. It actually makes you human. About Shelly Brown: Shelly is the co-founder of Good Grit Magazine, a publication celebrating Southern culture, small towns, and the artisans who make them beautiful. She's also the owner of Curator, a thoughtfully curated shop in Trilith, Georgia. A mother of five, Shelly is passionate about hospitality, community, and creating spaces where people feel at home. Her work reflects her belief that beauty, brokenness, and belonging can coexist. Stay connected to Shelly and her work: www.curator.shop Follow So Worth Loving: www.instagram.com/soworthloving