The Secrets of Successful Couples: Bid Attempts, Communication, and Emotional Connection (Episode #31)

The Secrets of Successful Couples: Bid Attempts, Communication, and Emotional Connection In this episode of the “Human Intimacy Podcast”, Dr. Kevin Skinner explores the secrets of successful couples, sharing key insights from relationship researchers like Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Sue Johnson. Dr. Skinner delves into the importance of recognizing and responding to "bid attempts"—those small gestures couples make to seek connection—and highlights how couples can either turn toward, away from, or against their partner's bids, affecting the relationship's overall health. He continues by explaining that successful couples practice effective communication, managing conflict respectfully, offering emotional support, and incorporating healthy physical touch. These couples are also emotionally attuned to each other’s needs, express appreciation and gratitude, and prioritize connection through small, everyday actions. Dr. Skinner encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships, scoring themselves on their ability to turn toward bid attempts, communicate effectively, offer emotional support, and express gratitude. The episode emphasizes that these core principles, when practiced consistently, can significantly improve relationship satisfaction and help couples overcome challenges together. Resources Mentioned: https://www.humanintimacy.com/course/test-your-relationship-extra A special thanks to McKay Hatch for allowing us to share his musical talent.