The Silent Pandemic: Understanding Grief and Finding Help with Doug Lawrence (Ep. 220)

In this heartfelt live episode from Eagle Pass, I welcome internationally certified mentor and author Doug Lawrence to unpack grief—why it’s misunderstood, how it shows up differently for everyone, and what genuine support looks like, especially during the holidays. We explore the evolution of mentoring from command-and-tell to trust-based guidance, how structured and unstructured mentoring can bolster mental health, and why asking for help isn’t weakness but wisdom. Doug shares how losing his wife after 43 years reshaped his understanding of grief, the importance of communication and boundaries around holiday invitations, and practical ways friends and workplaces can truly support the grieving. We also touch on closure, the role of mentors as active listeners, and why grief has no end date—only a personal, ongoing healing journey.Plus, I open up about my own experiences with loss, seasonal struggles, and the pressure to “be festive,” offering an honest look at coping in real time. We close with where to find Doug and his book, Grief, The Silent Pandemic, and a reminder that our live shows stream across multiple platforms with replays available anytime.  Watch LIVE tonight at 7PM CT Rumble.com/JoeRooz YouTube.com/@JoeRooz FOLLOW US ON:X: https://x.com/joeroozFacebook: https://facebook.com/joeroozshowTwitch TV: https://twitch.tv/joeroozInstagram: https://instagram.com/notjoeroozTikTok: https://tiktok.com/joe.roozMinds: https://minds.com/joeroozGETTR: https://gettr.com/joeroozSpecial thanks to:Executive Producer Wayne RankinExecutive Producer Rosanna RankinExecutive Producer Carolina JimenezExecutive Producer Angela WetuskiExecutive Producer John SeeleyWant to be a guest on The Joe Rooz Show?Send Joe a message on #PodMatch: https://www.podmatch.com/member/joeCheck out our partners:Podhome.fmCreative EdgeMusic: https://youtube.com/@pogo️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! https://streamyard.com/pal/d/5724294587940864(00:03:41) Opening from Eagle Pass and Monday night setup(00:04:49) Christmas talk: spirit vs. commercialization and the "kids" (dogs)(00:06:36) Weekend recap: crypto show and Bible study on Judges(00:08:47) Programming notes and expanded livestream platforms(00:10:58) Housekeeping: website, contact, value-for-value support(00:15:39) Guest intro: Doug Lawrence on mentoring, mental health, and grief(00:17:24) Icebreakers: coffee with Ken Blanchard and GPS voices(00:20:46) Mentoring then and now: from telling to guiding(00:24:14) Asking for help and creating a safe mentoring space(00:28:47) The practice of mentoring, certification, and structure(00:32:38) Pivot to grief: holidays, loss, and coping(00:35:14) Communicating needs during holidays and the "fifth wheel" feeling(00:39:56) Grief timelines differ: missing parents and enduring memories(00:45:25) What people misunderstand about grief: no end date(00:47:50) Grief as a mental health challenge and physical toll(00:53:17) Life after loss: learning to live alone and daily routines(00:53:24) Doug’s book: Grief, The Silent Pandemic—who it’s for and why(01:01:48) Closure, mediums, and personal pathways to healing(01:17:50) Workplaces, EAPs, and supporting grieving employees(01:18:21) Paranormal experiences and comforting signs(01:28:32) Final reflections: asking for help and being heard(01:29:42) Guest contacts and wrap with show announcements - Joe "Rooz" Russiello - Marisa Lee - Wayne Rankin - Rosanna Rankin - Angela Wetuski - Carolina Jimenezhttps://www.joerooz.com/supporthttps://www.joerooz.com