The Six Human Needs - An Introduction - with Paul Lowe

Everything we do in life is done in order to fulfil a need. If we strip back these needs and requirements, we can clearly identify that all human needs centre around six very primal, very established necessities.   In today's show, the first in a series of specialised conversations about this fascinating subject, Hina talks to Paul Lowe, host and creator of the Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, about the six basic human needs - how to identify them, and how to make sure that each need is being effectively served.   KEY TAKEAWAYS   The six human needs are a need for certainty, a need for uncertainty (variety), for significance, for love and connection, for growth, and finally the need for contribution. The need for certainty, or uncertainty, can manifest itself in many different ways. The most common form of endorsement comes in the structuring of routines in our lives. These routines often then lead to a desire for disruption or uncertainty. Validation in business and life come in the form of congratulations or merit. We seek these awards in order to feel that sense of achievement that convinces us that we are on the right track. It also serves to feed our competitive nature. Many people settle for connection rather than love, for fear of being hurt if they lower their defences. But the pain we feel in the fallout from love's sting is a price worth paying. Love is always the greatest gift we can hope for.   BEST MOMENTS   'I created an almost military-like way of living' 'I've lived within that goldfish bowl - that prison - for so many years' 'Everybody is unique. We are all important. We all have our own strengths and weaknesses' 'To love somebody, we need to learn to love ourselves'   VALUABLE RESOURCES Feel Fabulous Podcast Hina Solanki - https://hinasolanki.com Permanent Makeup Guide by Hina Solanki (Amazon) Dance With The Universe by Hina Solanki (Amazon)   Mastering The Game Of Life   ABOUT THE HOST   Hello and welcome to the Feel Fabulous show with Hina Solanki. I am your host, Hina, and I will be speaking with leaders, experts, and familiar faces from around the world on wellbeing, entrepreneurship and spiritual wisdom. Sharing uplifting, inspiring, educational and motivating content whilst giving you valuable insight that you can trust. I will also create solo episodes to share how I personally managed to get through some of the darkest times in life. Demonstrating that positivity, mindset and faith have a vital role in orchestrating the most wonderful times ahead for us all. In the midst of all of this content I will be sharing tips and tricks for flawless skin. I have a great understanding and knowledge of skincare and truly believe that working with Mother Nature on this can help with healing from the 'outside in'. If you are not feeling confident and fabulous, it is my mission to change that. Listen in today because you deserve to feel incredible.   CONTACT METHOD https://www.instagram.com/hinasolanki1/?hl=en https://www.facebook.com/Hina-Solanki-103699278044593 https://www.facebook.com/groups/2548032401963267 https://twitter.com/hinasolanki01?lang=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/hina-solanki-280302a/   ABOUT THE GUEST   One thing that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – something he is totally aware of.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned the iconic ‘Think Different’ Apple commercial narrated by Steve Jobs in 1977:   “Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules.  You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do!”   Paul has a long and distinguished history of coaching & mentoring – particularly focusing on helping people make the transition from pain to purpose; a journey he has made himself, from the depths of a deep dark existence, to now living a life of happiness and prosperity.   Through this Mastering The Game Of Life podcast, and books he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.   “Remember – Mastering The Game Of Life Starts, By Embracing Our Hearts!”   CONTACT METHOD   Tel: +44 (0) 115 7270101 E-mail: [email protected] Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAMPaulLowe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-d-lowe-7a78332a/