The Unexpected Reality of Moving Abroad

Moving abroad with kids… are we preparing for the logistics, but missing the emotional side of the transition? In this week’s episode, we unpack some of the things families often underestimate when moving abroad, especially when it comes to children. We talk about why kids don’t always respond to big transitions in the ways we expect, and why excitement, sadness, resistance, anxiety, or behavioral changes can show up weeks or even months later. We explore how children experience moves differently than adults. While parents may be focused on adventure, travel opportunities, or a new beginning, children are often thinking about something much smaller, but much bigger to them: Who will I play with? What will my school look like? Will I see my friends again? We also dive into how moving affects a child’s sense of control, predictability, and emotional safety. From routines suddenly changing, to losing familiar places and relationships, we talk about practical ways parents can support regulation and create more familiarity during a season filled with uncertainty. In this episode, you’ll learn: - Why children's emotional responses to moving can be delayed and unpredictable - How behavioral changes can sometimes be a stress response, not “bad behavior” - Why routines and familiarity matter so much during transitions - Ways to create excitement while still honoring grief and uncertainty   If you are looking for support, get in touch and share your questions and concerns at: [email protected] Find us on TikTok, Instagram and YouTube! Follow Tara! Follow Shaenelle!