What Do You Really Want In A Relationship? | Real Men, Real Talk 19

Grab Your Free Resources:🎁 Kingdom Resources: 👉🏼5-Tips:  ⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4jCOhoEWhat Do You Want In a Relationship?SummaryIn this episode, Hatch Catch explores the deeper desires people have in relationships, emphasizing the importance of clarity over mere emotional attraction. He discusses how many individuals struggle to articulate what they truly want, often defaulting to superficial desires rather than seeking meaningful connections. The conversation highlights the need for relationships built on substance, purpose, and lasting value, rather than fleeting emotions or physical attraction. Hatch Catch encourages listeners to reflect on their relationship goals and to seek partners who align with their life missions.Do you want more for your connections?Ready to go deeper feel out the application.Kingdom Coaching Application👇🏼👉🏼 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/4rDF1U9⁠Real-Life Example: The Cost of Pursuing Materialistic LoveConsider a woman in a marriage where her needs were fully met—she had wealth, status, comfort. But when her partner faced health crises, she sought a replacement, proving she valued fleeting comfort over lasting connection.This story highlights a key truth: when relationships are built on material or emotional superficialities, they crumble when tested. Lasting love—and the relationships that can weather storms—are rooted in the intangible, divine qualities that can’t be stolen, rusted, or lost.Takeaways*Most people can't answer the question of what they want in a relationship.*Attraction isn't a relationship plan; chemistry matters but isn't enough.*Define what success looks like in your relationships.*Stop looking for everything; find someone who fits your mission.*Seek relationships based on substance, not just feelings.*What we want often contradicts what we truly need.*Relationships should be built on incorruptible values.*Clarity in relationship goals leads to better choices.*Emotional connections can lead to misguided desires.*Seek partners who align with your purpose and values.TitlesWhat Do You Really Want in a Relationship?Moving from Emotion to Clarity in RelationshipsSound Bites00:00 "What we want is the exact opposite."08:15 "Do we want lasting things?"17:41 "Stop looking for everything."19:45 "Will they be of substance?"Chapters00:00 Understanding Relationship Desires03:00 The Importance of Substance in Relationships05:56 Seeking Lasting Connections08:58 Defining True Relationship Success11:58 The Role of Purpose in Relationships14:59 Clarity Over Emotion in Relationship In ConclusionThe Main Takeaways—Clarity Over EmotionsHere are the sharp, practical truths to take away:Most people can’t answer what they really want—they default to feelings and surface-level attractions instead of purpose and vision.Attraction and chemistry matter, but they aren’t the plan. They’re the spark, not the force that sustains.Success in relationships is defined by purpose, not just feelings. Ask yourself: What am I building? Is it aligned with divine purpose?Stop searching for everything. No one is perfect—focus on someone who fits your mission and purpose, not every checklist or worldly standard.Seek incorruptible qualities—faith, integrity, patience—that stand the test of time and hardship.*Lasting love—and the relationships that can weather storms—are rooted in the intangible, divine qualities that can’t be stolen, rusted, or lost.#relationships #love #clarity #substance #purpose #attraction #emotionalconnection #lastingvalue #relationshipgoals #personal growth