What I Wish I Knew Before Becoming a Dad (No One Tells You This)

If you want to work together, I offer counseling and coaching.Links:📱 Instagram: @grantberardi and @hi_struggling_im_dad🎙 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1uSJKNN5QB2hnzZ762WrKq?si=fVLhd9dDSleMFN8FbzewMQ👨‍👧‍👦 For Christian fathers, leaders & men rebuilding their lives from the inside out, check out my community: skool.com/the-kings-men-7411Becoming a dad changes everything.In this episode, I share the things I wish I knew before becoming a father — lessons from raising five kids, navigating pregnancy, childbirth, sleepless nights, and learning what really matters as a dad.If you're about to become a father, thinking about kids, or you're a new dad trying to figure things out, this episode will give you practical insights and encouragement.Fatherhood doesn’t require perfection — it requires heart, presence, and a willingness to grow.In this episode we talk about:• What actually changes when you become a dad• The biggest lifestyle shifts in fatherhood• Supporting your partner during pregnancy and childbirth• What surprised me most about becoming a father• Common expectations that trip up new dads• How to bond with your child early• Why sleep, food, and preparation matter more than you think• How to show up as the dad your kids needEvery father’s journey is different, but one thing is true:If you lead with love and keep learning, you’ll do a great job.If you're a dad or expecting a child soon, this episode is for you.00:00 Becoming a Dad00:27 Life Changes Fast01:58 Holding Babies Safely02:58 Expectations and Emotions06:00 What to Do All Day07:35 Sleep and Recovery08:45 Feed Mum Well09:26 Avoid Expectation Traps11:48 Support During Pregnancy12:41 Prepare for Childbirth14:06 Support During Labor15:11 Birth Plans and Advocacy20:08 Learning on the Job21:27 What Fatherhood Taught Me25:28 Closing ThoughtsSubscribe for weekly conversations on:FatherhoodParentingMarriagePersonal growthMasculinityBuilding strong families