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EPISODE · Sep 24, 2025 · 6 MIN

When Sex Feels Like a Chore

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Is sex a chore? You’re not alone.In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective, it feels draining — another way of giving without receiving.I open up about my own experience of this during grad school, and how stress and disconnection can make intimacy feel impossible. I also walk you through how my 1:1 coaching container helps women shift from obligation to liberation — reclaiming sex as a source of pleasure, power, and deep connection.What you’ll hear in this episode:✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for women✨ How stress and body disconnection play a role✨ Why prioritizing your own pleasure changes everything✨ How my 8-week coaching container creates space to heal and reclaim intimacyIf you’ve ever thought “I should want sex, but it just feels like work” — this episode is for you.🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation 🌹 Get your Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journeyBecause your body is sacred. Your pleasure is yours. And you are not broken.

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Is sex a chore? You’re not alone.In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective,...

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