When Well-Meaning is Actually Dismissive

Sometimes, the people who love us most say things with the very best intentions. Unfortunately, they can still land in a way that feels painful. In today's episode, I'm talking about what happens when well-meaning is actually dismissive. Through experiences like losing my dad, navigating cancer, and living through devastating fires, I've become more aware of how quick we are to search for silver linings or make someone feel better. At the end of the day, people don't always need us to have the "perfect" words. They need us to sit beside them, truly listen, and say, "I see you."If this conversation resonates and you're ready to go deeper on your healing journey, I'd love to support you. You can schedule a free 30-minute call with me to talk about 1:1 Good Movement Guidance. Make sure to mention "castpod" when you book to receive 10% off!In this episode, I cover:Why “well-meaning” responses can sometimes feel dismissiveCommon phrases that unintentionally gloss over grief or hard emotionsWhy validation matters more than silver linings in difficult momentsThe reminder that multiple experiences & perspectives can both be trueWhy we don’t get to choose our feelingsHow our own relationship with emotions shapes how we respond to othersRecognizing the urge to fix, solve, or rush someone toward feeling better + what to do insteadWhy holding space, listening & simply being present matters SO muchWhy others need your presence more than “perfect words” Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/when-well-meaning-is-dismissive Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at [email protected] & Links:Schedule a free consult and see if 1:1 Good Movement Guidance is right for youCheck out my merch shopJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr Podcasting