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EPISODE · Nov 21, 2025 · 46 MIN

When You Realize UR the Problem

from the Art of Self · host Donna Guerreros

Admitting we might be the architects of our own bullshit is not the easiest realization. There is a bit of resilience I don’t think people talk enough about that is required to pivot, when the old ways simply don’t fit anymore.When you have to get out of your comfort zone of complaints (and out of your own way)I realized recently that I’ve been in an echo chamber of my own complaints and it’s quickly becoming my comfort zone. my safe space. Stuck in patterns, I thought I’d outgrown. how am I still complaining about the same thing for months? It’s starting to feel insanely suffocating. Then there’s the realization that you would in fact roll your own eyes at yourself if you were listening to you…is awkward and yes a bit embarrassing. But coming to grips with your “comfort zone” being a golden cage… is also very freeing The Art of Self is not trying to influence you. The Donas Project has always run on my curiosity & need to share, not bored algorithms - with your help that can continue..How are you maintaining your wounds out of habit? Are you constantly venting or changing?Processing or procrastinating? Or just continuing to rehearse the same old monologue. we’re all in this together, so if you’re stuck, or if you caught yourself delivering the same “greatest hits” of complaints - know that you’re not alone. Yes we might have put ourselves in a Golden Cage of complaints…but the door is open. I hope you enjoy this episode🎧 Listen on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts. Or right here (it’s why you subscribe after all)Thank you for reviewing the podcast on Apple and Spotify!* Email: [email protected] Donna on Instagram and YouTube!!* IG: My personal account* IG: The Donas account* YT: Donna Guerreros* Shop: The Donas Shop* My website: more stuff & my catalogue of work* The Art of Self with Donna Guerreros is a multi-dimensional wellness podcast covering lifestyle tips, insightful interviews, deep dives, and thought-provoking reflections. Donna is a Nurse, an Artist, & Perpetual Student on a mission to share how she is living life by design, not default. And she’s asking you “Isn’t it time you created a life you didn’t want to escape from?” It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s just what you need right now.the Art of Self is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theartofself.substack.com/subscribe

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